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teh_man
March 25th, 2012, 08:22 PM
I have a guy friend. we usually act gay with eachother but i always thought it was a joke and enjoyed doing it. a lot of time(ITS BECOMING A NEW THING) he grabs my junk when i walk by. what does this mean? is he messing around? or wanting to act on it?

Sudds3
March 25th, 2012, 09:00 PM
I do it as a joke, but i dont grab their crotch! Maybe their ass and then they pretend to like it and we all laugh.....but I think he is curious and wants to experiment! So if you have him spend the night....be prepaired! This happened to me and I was caught off gaurd....oh and Hey noobie! Im new here too joined like the same day, I think! Welcome to VT

Kaius
March 26th, 2012, 12:44 AM
VT HQ :arrow2: P101

snow661
March 26th, 2012, 01:14 AM
lmao, you are one lucky kid.. sleep tight at his house..........

Cicero
March 26th, 2012, 01:26 AM
I have a guy friend. we usually act gay with eachother but i always thought it was a joke and enjoyed doing it. a lot of time(ITS BECOMING A NEW THING) he grabs my junk when i walk by. what does this mean? is he messing around? or wanting to act on it?

For me personally it sounds like he's wanting to act on it, I would understand if it was a smack to the butt, but it was a grab toward the balls. So it leaves me to believe he's wanting to experiment.

NephilimAzrael
March 26th, 2012, 10:47 AM
i think maybe u've been doing it so long, he's either just comfortable enough to do that, or he wants to experiment =)

CoolGuyXD
March 26th, 2012, 11:11 AM
I would say it is just taking the joking to the next level. It could turn into experimenting if you ask him when you are alone.

Just_meh
March 26th, 2012, 01:36 PM
Its different to say...both is possible.

senior.2013
March 26th, 2012, 04:03 PM
As said, it sounds like another joke or because youre in your teens, maybe he wants to experiment. Just go with it unless it makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him to stop.

CyberEntity
March 26th, 2012, 05:12 PM
Maybe he wasn't comfortable with it, too. He probably thought of it as a joke, did it and felt awkward afterwards.

ThePaintMixer
April 2nd, 2012, 04:50 PM
We used to do this at school all the time. We all knew it was a joke, and often played along. I vividly remember walking into my form room and getting ass raped by my friend: I just played it off saying "what have I told you? We have to wait til we're in private!"

He's your friend, so you should be able to gauge whether or not he still finds it a joke or is maybe trying to tell you something.

Eric57
April 2nd, 2012, 07:22 PM
It sounds like he is just taking the joke to the next level. Although, he might be wanting to experiment. So if you ever stay the night with him, be prepared. :)

jack2080
April 3rd, 2012, 07:38 PM
I know exactly what you mean bro! its not a big deal at all! i really wouldnt worry about it. me and my friends do that kind of shit alll the time

VirtualGuy012
April 4th, 2012, 07:35 PM
Maybe he want's to go farther?

Coolman21
April 4th, 2012, 07:40 PM
For me personally it sounds like he's wanting to act on it, I would understand if it was a smack to the butt, but it was a grab toward the balls. So it leaves me to believe he's wanting to experiment.

me too

twotall
April 4th, 2012, 07:42 PM
yea the way it sounds it little bit more then a joke i understand a act like your going to grab or a tap a joke but a grab is trying for more so just toss it out there all he can say is no so then you will know for shore

leafgreenangel
April 4th, 2012, 08:24 PM
It sounds like a joke. Do you do it back? If anything it seems like he wilk initiate any experimenting because he is obviously the more curious one

UTurn
April 4th, 2012, 09:44 PM
Sounds like he wants to go farther. Just be ready :)

OlaTheWizzV1
April 5th, 2012, 01:56 AM
How come everyone gets these experimental situations but me :p

but it depends. do something...awkward...of if he does something to you,try to pretend to be caught off gaurd then question him on the matter.

shahzaib92
April 5th, 2012, 02:25 AM
Be alert he wants to take a step to the next level

boosterboy
April 5th, 2012, 06:02 AM
He probs wants to experiment with you

DerBear
April 5th, 2012, 08:03 AM
I cannot say if it is a joke, its not something I do, or anyone does to me.

If you don't like it then I am afraid you need to tell him. If you do then you need to think about your future.

If you think your friend may have adopted feelings for you then I suggest you speak to him and set him straight on how you feel to avoid any issues that the future could bring you.

Soccer4life99
April 5th, 2012, 10:19 AM
i have never acted gay with anyone and i think maybe your friend is gay or wants to try being gay or something

junkymcjunkpants
May 5th, 2012, 06:15 AM
Thats how me and my friend kinda got the "hint" that he wanted to experiment with me and needless to say we had a lot of fun after we got passed the awkward point :yummy:

Papibear
May 5th, 2012, 02:47 PM
he wants to step things up to the next level

AllSwaggedUp
September 27th, 2012, 07:23 PM
I did that too but never went that far...

Jtyler
September 27th, 2012, 09:17 PM
I understand I have the same problem with my best friend

RunnerForLife
September 27th, 2012, 09:23 PM
It sounds like he's just messing with you but he might want to take it farther