my brother in law thinks i'm a fucking whore

[mynameisjane]

i hang out with mostly guys. thats just me. i paintball and play video games and i just find guys easier to talk to and i just enjoy their company over girls. since summer started, i started hanging out with friends more outside school. every time i see my brother in law, he says, "how's your boyfriend?" it was harmless teasing the first couple times, but now he says stuff like, "you always hang out with a bunch of guys. you know what that means." then i was out late tonight and my sister calls me and tells me to get home and she lectures me and interrogates me and my brother just laughs and calls me a slut. i live with my siblings and i dont have a cerfew if i tell my brother where i am. i followed the rules. she isnt the one watching me but she comes and tells me i'm a slut and i shouldnt be out so late. it pisses me off so badly. i've never even had my first kiss and i keep her updated on my social life and i've never done anything to betray her trust and she gets mad at me and calls me a slut. its bullshit.

[mynameisjane]

i wrote this right after it happened and i was really mad. please excuse my profanity, i'll deal with it.

[Bobby]

Porfanity is okay as long as it's not insulting someone on this site.

Sometimes you just need to let out your anger.

[Whisper]

If your following the rules and haven't done anything wrong
then they all need to fuck off

your bro inlaw sounds like a real ass no offence
I have two
one of them I never used to get along with very well
its takin yrs
but we get along REALLY great now....hes VERY protective of me

hopefully you two can sort out your problems


but to be perfectly frank
he can piss off
you should sit down with your sister and try to explain to her though
remind her you've never done anything to betray her trust and you never will

[PoisonousLove]

I can relate. I hang out with a lot of girls, and they "love" me, just because I'm pretty feminine in the way I act and whatnot. I dont know. I'm not gay, I just prefer to be around girls over guys, because every guy is a fucking asshole.

Yea, I know, it sounds like I'm just trying to get laid, but I don't want to...I stick with the heart.

[Booman5]

As long as you aren't doing anything wrong, what's the problem. I wouldn't worry about him and just relax.

[JoshDude]

Just ignore them. I mean, if they believe you are a slut, and you aren't, just ignore them completely. They will eventually get bored and most likely stop.

[MoveAlong]

It's bullshit like you said. You don't sound like a slut - I hang out with gals and they call me gay. I mean, I am, but that isn't really a good reason! :rolleyes: And it's the same about your brother - it isn't a good reason.

This was more of a vent, right? I think this should go in TWPR...

[t0mb0ii13]

Thats bullshit, just bull, hell im 14 & i play football with a group of boys till ten so i say whats that guys prob?

[Φρανκομβριτ]

please don't double post. Use the Edit button at the bottom of your post.

You can do two things. You can either brush it off like nothing, or you can sit them down and explain its really pissing you off. ANother great thing would be to tell them you're a lesbian LOL, but that's extreme. I'm sure if you tell them it pisses you off, they'll understand.

[Sad_but_ok1]

I have 2 brother in laws 2 1 doesnt talk 2 me then the other one laughs at me cause got into 2 many fights with my sis cause her husband raped me and he denies it and now my sis hates me

[I'm cool like spongebob]

just relax and do things the way you want to