Need Help

[onebandman101]

ok so ive been masturbating since i was 11 and now im 14 n one day when i thought she be gone 4 awhile i started 2 jack off in my room completly naked and my she walked in on me in she had this like disguested looking fac then started to yell at me and also when she caught me she saw my pubes and said i have to shave them all off and i was like guys dnt do that and she said well u will...now that i have she makes me shave them evry week now n she has to watch me do it...did i do smthing wrong plz help

[stridegum91]

well 1st off i know of men that shave.. most men that i no do so its normal but i would tell ur mom that u feel extremely uncomfortable and she needs to let u live ur own life with u wanting to shave or not and its not something that she should be involved with

[onebandman101]

thanks 4 ur help but what bout the masturbation

[Pioneer92]

no you didnt do anything wrong but i think your mom overreacted. maybe she was raised in a conservative manner or thats just how things were done in her family but i still think she overreacted. most males masturbate, its really nothing to be ashamed of. and there are some males that shave and some that dont, i dont and most of the people i know dont because its a hassle at our age :P

[MoveAlong]

she??? who's she???
She's wrong. I still don't get who you're talking about because it wasn't perfect wording :|

[jc002584]

I think when he says she he means his mom. if my mom forced me to shave my pubes (which i dont think she woudl) i wouldnt, I do trim them tho but shaving them makes it really itchy

[Maverick]

General Puberty :arrow: Boys Puberty

[Glasgow]

Either your mom is insane or you are lying. There is nothing wrong with masturbation and there certainly isnt anything wrong with pubic hair. EVERYONE gets pubic hair and its not a thing you can stop. Thats all I have to say

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um, this DOES seem a bit farfetched but actually I believe this guy (I heard a similar story, and this kinda creeped me out). Anyway, the story I heard started JUST LIKE THIS and ended VERY BADLY. I'm sorry if I seem too ominous or something, but something is very WRONG about this picture. I dunno, I could just feel it when I read his post (seriously guys; bear with me please).

If your mom wanted you to shave your pubes SHE CANNOT MAKE YOU. It is your body and especially your GENITALS! But the WORST THING of all is the fact that she makes you do it in front of her. Now that part made me feel SICK. Isn't that a form of sexual abuse!? I mean, my friend's AUNT caught him masturbating and for a while he was forced to do it IN FRONT OF HER "or else she would tell his parents". Did anyone else get this feeling from the post? I really don't get this worked up about stuff like this, but it really affected me...

Please buddy, don't let her tell you to do stuff, and especially DON'T LET HER WATCH! It just... isn't right. Nothing's right about this situation....

[Gumleaf]

i can understand your mum ripping into you about masturbation, but i'm at a loss to figure out why you must shave your pubic hair. maybe you should confront her about it?

[CryingEye666]

you're mom just over reacted
thats all
im not too sure what to do now though...
if i was you, id jack off at night when no ones around
its much easier

[Trebor]

There is a book in the Hannibal Lector series entitled "Red Dragon". For a better understanding of this boy's prediciment look it up, particualarly the charactor of the grandmother...

[disneyfreak1108]

ya she overreacted l0l

[Berodas]

ok i want u to do one thing tell yuor dad i think he will agree with u both begin guys.

[derikkid]

wtf your mum watches you shave your pubes thts gota be embarricing poor you

[heartagram72]

u could consider this abuse...shes watching shave ur dick
thats WRONG!
also.... just forget about her walking in on u j/o-ing
just tell her (about the pubes) that guys have pubic hair, and ur a guy. ur not going to do this with her, cuz u fell uncumfortable, and u dont like shaving ur pubes, cuz (im guessing from my own experiences) that it hurts when i grows back...say ur mom will just have to live with ur body the way it is...then go back to acting normal.

also...try jacking off in the shower, w/ the bathroom door locked. then u can clean up ur lube and all by taking a shower. then ulll also be clean all the time!!! :-)

[Maverick]

Heartagram, edit your post instead of double posting.

[Antares]

I also thinkk that this is a form of abuse. Next time she makes you do that I think that you should ask some questions. Because in my opinion THATS VERY WRONG. Also we never got clarification of who it was but we can assume its your mom. You did nothing wrong. Pubic hair is normal and some people do shave them and most people dont. And masterbating is one of the most normal things in the world.

[Camazotz]

I believe this is sexual abuse. Tell your dad, and ask him to talk to your mom.

[MoveAlong]

I don't think this is abuse because she didn't watch him, he said she caught him and then gave her opinion on what he should do
I still think that she's wrong and you should not take her advice. Also, if she does in fact watch you, you should tell your dad about that :|

[NintendoFanboy]

Tell your mom no. Watch her go off, then when she tells you, say no and slam your door. And lock it. Also, lock your door if you want to masturbate, just go in your room inconspicuously.

[Antares]

I don't think this is abuse because she didn't watch him, he said she caught him and then gave her opinion on what he should do
I still think that she's wrong and you should not take her advice. Also, if she does in fact watch you, you should tell your dad about that :|

he said that she watches him shave see:

"now that i have she makes me shave them evry week now n she has to watch me do it"