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Cody 1324
March 23rd, 2012, 10:48 PM
Ok so im a 15 year old guy, iv'e only dated 1 girl and i was so scared i would mess something up i didnt do any thing, so ya i havn't even had my first kiss (not even a little peck) and all my friends have. To be hones im not sure what im asking here but any advice would be awesome, thanks guys (and girls)

Oh and sorry about any spelling/grammer/capitlization errors, im on my ipod

Jabbawocke
March 23rd, 2012, 11:10 PM
:3 Chill. Ok maybe you should be a lil worried. About 99% of 15+ people i know have had a kiss(or have gotten laid..) um. That can be a real problem tho. Hard to read a girl :P Try asking her friends if she talks about you.

Matt_is_Awesome
March 23rd, 2012, 11:19 PM
Just chill im 15 and have had plenty of gf's, some call me a player (Im not tho) but my advice is to not be so nervous. just give her a little kiss on the lips and she will love it. hug her. just have fun with her man

Jabbawocke
March 23rd, 2012, 11:20 PM
Hrm. Shouldnt he go for the cheek first? Being too fast mite not be good. Though it depends on her style

CaliSublime
March 24th, 2012, 11:15 AM
if she was your girlfriend u should have just gone for it when u 2 are alone, or when saying goodbye, she wants to kiss as bad as u so dont be nervous, if u know she likes u then shes not gonna turn u down

Desuetude
March 24th, 2012, 11:31 AM
It's normal to be 15 and not have done anything. Everyone goes at a pace that's right for them and if you look though VT there are some people that are 18/19 that have still not done anything and it's absolutely fine.
Try to relax a little, remember that every single person goes through that stage of not knowing what to do and being nervous about it and don't compare yourself to your friends, don't give in to peer pressure. Just see how things go, planning ahead will only make you more nervous.

Wicked_Syn
March 24th, 2012, 12:12 PM
:3 Chill. Ok maybe you should be a lil worried. About 99% of 15+ people i know have had a kiss(or have gotten laid..) um. That can be a real problem tho. Hard to read a girl :P Try asking her friends if she talks about you.

Hey man, don't listen to what this kid just posted. You have NOTHING to worry about. Not having your first kiss at 15 is nothing to be ashamed of, and it is NOT a problem. This kid is only 13, what does he know about first kisses?

By the way, I am 17, and I still haven't had my first kiss because I'm not a whore like a lot of guys are. I am waiting until I meet the right person. There is no age restriction on your first kiss. Never.

RCT109
March 24th, 2012, 01:41 PM
listen I'm 16 and haven't had either a gf or my first kiss so dont sweat it

and when your ready go for it

Quercus
March 24th, 2012, 02:32 PM
Ahh I remember my first kiss... I was 14.
I was scared as shir I was gonna mess it up but I didnt. The gal told me I was the best kisser ever.

Take a chill pill, things will work out

madea rocks
March 24th, 2012, 09:52 PM
Dont sweat it just take ur time and it will happen

Mortal Coil
March 24th, 2012, 09:55 PM
take a huge chill pill, and try not to be awkward about it. I'd say go for the cheek first, but to each their own..

LitBlackRose
March 25th, 2012, 12:55 PM
Sorry I'm no help I'm the same one bf only for 2 1/2 that was it never kissed not even a peck lik u said

Cody 1324
March 26th, 2012, 02:24 PM
K thanks for the advice guys ;)