Moving too fast? or is it just me.

[Princess Ariel]

3 days ago I started a relationship with a person who doesn't have the greatest looks, but has an amazing personality. We were supposed to have our first date today, but I ditched. Part of it was because my voice was almost gone, but the majority was because I think he's moving too fast. Today is our 3rd day, and we were supposed to have our first date ; The gym, and eating fish.. I despise fish, but that's not the point. The point is, I was supposed to meet his PARENTS!!! 3rd day, 1st date, and i'm meeting the parents.

I think I should end it with him, but I really don't know. He comes up with all these sexual comments, and how "we shall see how things work out" when someone made a comment about MARRIAGE. I really wanted this to last, and not be a rebound thing from my messy break up with Dion. But I think that I should break up, but then. He has a great personality. So I don't know..

If you were in my position, and he was going this fast. What would you do?

Note: He's been texting me non-stop giving me compliments, and if my throat is still strep..

[Desuetude]

I think you need to talk to him Casey. If you feel he is being a little to full on with how fast things are moving then just tell him how you feel. Tell him you want to slow things down and maybe ask him to give you a little space but say why so then he wont think you're going off him. It's only been a few days so if you want to try and work things out then maybe give him a few more days and see how things go.

[Princess Ariel]

I try but he always avoids the conversation. He also just texted me "like building or house number possibly? casue i'm thinking of coming over one day.

[Anselmo]

3rd day, 1st date, and i'm meeting the parents.

yeah...he's moving too fast.

Tell him from a sudden that he's moving to fast in such a direct way that he can't change the subject. And then let him choose what he wants...he can slow down a bit and stay with you or he can do something else that you probabily don't want, that also makes a good reason to break up.

[ImCoolBeans]

Thats a little strange, but to be honest I think having a talk with him about how you feel will do a lot better than just cutting ties and ending the relationship. Talk to him, tell him how you feel, give things a chance to settle down and then make your decision. It sounds like you genuinely like him, so try that and then come to a final decision.

[Short Circuit]

Talking about marriage after 3 days! I wait at least a week before I mention that LMAO (jk)

Casey, just talk to him, tell him he is going too fast, and that you do not like fish! A relationship can only work if BOTH people put input into it, not just one person.

[Princess Ariel]

Thanks guise <333

I've been putting in so much effort, but sometimes it's nice to just kick back and relax and see where it takes you... I'm highly considering breaking up with him, I was dragged my my legs to do it at lunch, But I chickened out..

It'll be done by the end of the week... I hope.