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Zach_014
March 23rd, 2012, 05:55 PM
Ok so heres the deal: I want to tell my best friend that I'm gay but i dont really know how he was raised and by this i mean i dont know if he was brought up in a homophobic household or wat the deal is. so how can i try to figure out if he is homophobic or not? i want to know so i can have a better understanding of whether or not he will be weirded out. So any ideas how i can kinda weasel whether he is homophobic?

Any help is greatly appreciated. :)

Desuetude
March 23rd, 2012, 05:58 PM
Maybe bring up something about how you saw someone that was gay doing something stereotypical, see how he reacts to it. Most likely if you open up a conversation then it will just keep rolling so somewhere in there you should get some idea of what he is like.
Just adding that If he is a real friend he will accept you for you and not just ditch you because of your sexuality, you shouldnt have to change for anyone remember that.

Stryker125
March 23rd, 2012, 06:28 PM
You could try bringing up something about gay people and see how he reacts..if he's your friend he shouldn't have a problem with it. Good luck!

Zach_014
March 23rd, 2012, 07:08 PM
thanks to both of you

i would text him and see if i could get something started but he ran out of minutes.

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Sudds3
March 26th, 2012, 09:55 PM
Bring up the topic of guys and penises and gay porn or stuff like that and see how he reacts...that will probably give you the best way of telling if he is a homophobe or not