Sex Questions..

[Squeegie]

I'm not sure if this is the right section...but anyway..

I don't plan on having sex anytime soon, but I was just wondering a few things.. If you have a condom on, does that allow you to stay inside the vagina a little longer when you cum, or do you still have to take it out right before you go..incase of possible leaking or what not..

Also, since like 90% of guys cum within like 30 seconds when it's their first time, what do you do to keep pleasing the girl, and not have her all disappointed at how short it all was, and make you embarassed... Is that it? or would you go back to fingering/oral sex... or perhaps just slip on another condom and keep going...

Thanks

[MoveAlong]

Good questions!

1) I wouldn't suggest staying in for more than a minute. After you cum, it could leak. After you're satisfied, take the condom off and tie it up and trash it. Don't wait until she cums.

2) I don't think it's THAT many (prob not 90% if you can last awhile with jackin off), but you can rub her clit/finger her or oral sex. I wouldn't suggest another condom.

The second question is pushing our rules a bit, we'll see what the mods think.

[Squeegie]

So then basically it's ok to keep going just a little while longer after you cum, you don't have to immediately take it out or anything.

Correct?

[Pioneer92]

if you cum in a condom then it's HIGHLY recommended that you remove the condom asap *while you're still hard*, or else it will get loose and some of your semen will leak out... which will defeat the whole purpose of using a condom in the first place

[MoveAlong]

if you cum in a condom then it's HIGHLY recommended that you remove the condom asap *while you're still hard*, or else it will get loose and some of your semen will leak out... which will defeat the whole purpose of using a condom in the first place

EXACTLY. Don't get soft at all. Take the above advice!

[Pioneer92]

:D just something i learned in health recently

also i missed the 2nd part of your question but it looks like MoveAlong covered it

[Squeegie]

Well this is confusing because MoveAlong at first said it's ok to stay in a little longer after you cum as long as you're hard still and have the condom on... but then Pioneer says take it out and remove the condom asap, and MoveAlong agreed...

So which is it guys? Can you stay in for maybe 20 more seconds if you cum with a condom on and you're still hard, or not? I'm pretty sure I'm not going to go soft if I'm still going back and forth whether I cum or not..lol

[MoveAlong]

yes, but it's not reccomended

[-Silence]

what do you do to keep pleasing the girl, and not have her all disappointed at how short it all was, and make you embarassed... Is that it? or would you go back to fingering/oral sex... or perhaps just slip on another condom and keep going...

Thanks


Foreplay before the sex, keep sex till the very last that way when you are done, you and her are both satisfied. Also, I've heard (so don't quote me on it) but the majority of girls find it easier to orgasm through foreplay than sex because during foreplay there is more stimulation towards the clitoris. Just a suggestion. :oops:

[Squeegie]

Alrighty, thanks Heather on that, and thanks MoveAlone and Pioneer for the 1st question.

[Glasgow]

Yeah i agree with Heather, while penetrating you're only stimulating her vaginal walls and whatever else is in there, not really the Clit. And you should play around at first, get all relaxed and more horny to start off, then sex will be more enjoyable.

And about your question, you should pull out even with a condom on, because that little tip at the top of the condom probably will not hold all of your cum, and it will drip down the sides and play the risk of getting her pregnant. And yeah guys who are having sex for the first time get really excited and its like masturbation x4 probably. (Not that i would know but im just taking a reasonable guess) Hope that answers all your questions

[Squeegie]

A new question just arose....

Are you able to cum without having anything even touching the penis? It just hit me, and I was thinking also, when it's a guys first time.. and they plan on having sex, but go through foreplay first.. what if they cum while fingering the girl or licking the vagina/clit..is that possible..I mean if it's your first time..I can imagine it to be.. If that were to happen, then you might not even get to have sex right? Eh idk.

[Pioneer92]

yeah its happened to me before when i was really, really horny and was with a girl :whoops: you might not be able to have sex afterwards but im not sure, it happened when we were doing a project at her house lol. but cumming like that doesnt happen to everyone and if it happens to you then your gf should keep an open mind about it

also if you have sex for the 1st time theres a chance you might not last very long. i dont like bragging but when i had sex it only lasted like 20 secs because i was so nervous and i kinda knew i wasnt ready to have sex (long story). i know it wasnt because i didnt know how to control my cum, i know how to when i masturbate (i use the stop and go method), it was different than that because i was just so nervous and scared

[CryingEye666]

Hey Squeegie, the average american 'couple' of having sex is 4 minutes. thats the average amount of time; as i heard from a friend. so dont feel too bad, 30 seconds out of 4 minutes, for a first time aint bad

[Squeegie]

also if you have sex for the 1st time theres a chance you might not last very long. i dont like bragging but when i had sex it only lasted like 20 secs because i was so nervous and i kinda knew i wasnt ready to have sex (long story). i know it wasnt because i didnt know how to control my cum, i know how to when i masturbate (i use the stop and go method), it was different than that because i was just so nervous and scared

I thought about that, but wouldn't it still be too hard to control your cum? Sex is way more erotic than masturbation, meaning you would think that the "stop and go method" (which I use too) wouldn't really work...I would imagine that once you start feeling the slight sensation, that even if you tried "stopping" that it would come out anyway.. Ah well.

So what happens if you cum during foreplay EVERY time you plan on having sex afterwards.. that means you'll never get to have sex because you've already came before it even began :[.

[Pioneer92]

i suppose, it was my first and only time having sex so i'm not too sure about that. i just assumed it was because i was really nervous, which i was. i really doubt that a person would cum EVERY time they do foreplay because sooner or later you will be able to tell when its gonna happen and/or you will get used to the person and feel comfortable so you wont cum so fast

[Squeegie]

Alright thanks.

[MoveAlong]

Are you able to cum without having anything even touching the penis?

Yes, altho it's not a sure thing like sex or masturbation!