Hope involving a friend?

[Necachi]

I have this friend I have known longer than any other friend I've ever had. Until recently I haven't really felt anything for her other then as my best friend. But for some reason I have come to realize that I need her more than I realized. She got a new boyfriend and they got into a fight because he got mad that she was talking to me and she stuck up for me and said she wasn't going to stop talking to me. I don't know what happened after that but she then told me she can't talk to me while he was home. I've sent her emails, but no response. I feel like she is ignoring me but I understand that because she has a new boyfriend and a possible happy life with him. I don't need an answer of what to do really, I just wanted to tell someone. Anyone...She lives over 1000 miles away so that's another big thing that bums me out. I feel happy when we talk and since we've stopped talking I haven't really been happy, except when I'm sleeping. Especially when she's in them.

[Jabbawocke]

Urg the stereotypical situation of love. The real problem here is the distance. You cant pursue a long distance relationship. That always fails. And probz the boyfriend is accesing her email and deleting your emails. Try to be a leaning shoulder for her when she and her boyfriend fights, she'll come to appreciate you more if your there for her

[Necachi]

Yeah but I was going to move up there. We've been friend for years and I've always been here for her and I've told her that I'm ok with the not talking. But it hurts a bit not talking to her.

[Desuetude]

Yeah but I was going to move up there. We've been friend for years and I've always been here for her and I've told her that I'm ok with the not talking. But it hurts a bit not talking to her.

It might hurt because you were so close. Her having a boyfriend shouldn't keep you from talking to her though. Him being so insecure that he can't trust his girlfriend when trying to keep in touch with a friend that lives 1000 miles away isn't your problem.
If you start to lose contact now, not talking too much then it will be a lot harder when you do. Things will get between you shouldn't let that happen because you're most likely going to grow apart. Some people change and make new friends altogether but if she means that much to you then don't let her go and don't let her boyfriend keep you from emailing or chatting to her.
Try writing an email about how you feel and try not to lie about being okay with it because we see that you're not. At least then she might try to be a little more understanding about the situation.

[Necachi]

I have sent her emails and I don't want to come off as that creepy guy who sends tons of messages when not receiving a reply. Until I do get an email back I'm trying not to send any more. And I am okay with it, I'm not ecstatic or excited about it, but just simply okay. I accept what she is doing, not that I agree, I understand though.