View Full Version : Need advice assap with a girl!
BORIK
March 21st, 2012, 08:46 PM
How do youu tell a girl who is your frriend that you want to take things to a relationship level?
Dimitri
March 21st, 2012, 08:52 PM
Honestly? Just tell her, be straight forward, she will respect you more for being honest with her than jumping around like a chicken with its head chopped off...
Don't just blurt out "I like you and want to be your girlfriend!!!!" Just ask "Hey, do you wanna go get some ice cream sometime?" and then go from there...
ImCoolBeans
March 21st, 2012, 09:34 PM
Honestly? Just tell her, be straight forward, she will respect you more for being honest with her than jumping around like a chicken with its head chopped off...
Don't just blurt out "I like you and want to be your girlfriend!!!!" Just ask "Hey, do you wanna go get some ice cream sometime?" and then go from there...
I don't know if I'd word it exactly like that, but he's right :P Be straight forward and more importantly be confident in yourself. Go into this with your head held high knowing what you want to ask her. Ask her on a date, she will definitely appreciate your honesty and she'll also notice your confidence.
kenoloor
March 21st, 2012, 11:05 PM
Say, "hey do you want to date?" and be done with it. Being "cute" is overrated (as is using the search feature, apparently).
Desuetude
March 22nd, 2012, 11:33 AM
Like everyone else said, if you like her then just tell her. Leave out all the bullshit because it's just not needed. Don't over do it like Robert said but ask her out to the cinema or just the park or town, her being your friend and knowing each other would make it easier because you will know what she likes, don't let things get awkward just treat it as if she is still just your friend.
kai99
March 22nd, 2012, 12:43 PM
Ask her out and when the mood is good tell her your feelings
Danielle's dreams
March 22nd, 2012, 02:17 PM
I bet she already knows ! Us girl can pick up on these things ! Give her a nice gift or take somewhere nice !
CaliSublime
March 23rd, 2012, 08:40 AM
Just ask her out, but dont drag it out, if you are her friend too long she might stop seeing you as someone she can go out with
Lizzlebob
March 23rd, 2012, 02:43 PM
Personally I would want them to just tell me, so that may be your best bet. It's always better being straightforward about things. Just be honest and be yourself. If she's your friend, then she'll hear you out. The worst thing that could happen would be that she could say no. And I know how much that hurts (trust me...) but if you guys are good friends then it shouldn't make anything awkward.
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