Advice

[pmm98]

So there is this girl I been dating and we been on and off but I really do love her a lot, but we haven't kissed yet, and she wants me to but I get really nervous and shy and I like can't do it and she has been reallllllllly understanding of my nerves but I need advice or tips on how to get over it and just go in for the kill? I know I will love it and be able to do it afterwards and I see my friends do it all the time but I'm nervous! We both really like each other but sometimes we can't talk in person because we dont know what to say but were always together no matter what I just don't know how to get over my nerves. Any tips???

[BORIK]

Brow just have that eye to eye stare moment gently lean in close your eye and do it. I had the same problem and those few steps right there will and should help you a lot.

[Jupiter]

this really isn't something you can plan. this is one of few things that just... happens.

[ImCoolBeans]

I was pretty nervous before my first kiss, I knew that it was coming, but there really is no way to prepare for it. Unfortunately it's one of those things where you need to learn as you go. Just go in for the kill, bud :) It's the only real way to do it.

[Stryker125]

Just gonna have to go for it dude. Once you make the move, it won't be that bad..or so I've been told. I haven't kissed anyone yet

[pmm98]

Thanks for the responses guys, I guess you all helped me identify the real problem I have. I'm trying to hard to plan it out step by step >.< When I feel the moment is right, I'll just go for it and see how it plays out. I already know she wants me to kiss her so, whats the worst that could happen :)

[Desuetude]

Thanks for the responses guys, I guess you all helped me identify the real problem I have. I'm trying to hard to plan it out step by step >.< When I feel the moment is right, I'll just go for it and see how it plays out. I already know she wants me to kiss her so, whats the worst that could happen :)

There you go. There shouldn't be a problem if you know she wants to kiss you as well. When the moments right then just go for it, everyone feels the same way about their first kiss and always anticipate it to be worse or are more nervous than they should be. There honestly isn't anything bad that could happen like you say, see how it plays out and i'm sure everything will be absolutely fine... better than fine. :)