History of my gf.... Need help.

[Quercus]

Iv been dating this girl for a month now, shes great. Everything iv wanted in a girl. Iv been finding out things I didnt know about her... She has told me all of the things but im slightly uneasy about it.
She told me she has been with 4 guys (to my one) even though iv probably done it more with this one girl then she had with the 4 guys (iv done it maybe 30 times with the one girl) it still upsets me. We have done it already... And lets put it this way it was simply freakn amazing! I think it was her and I's expeirence. She told me I was the best guy she ever been with... I believe her, theres scrathes on my back and she was orgasiming the whole time.

Today she told me she made out with a stranger about a year ago.. And I dont know why but it just upset me...
How do I get over her history of her being with other guys? I dont think she would ever cheat on me ever. We were friends for 4 months before we started dating so we have a solid relationship... I like her alot... And I want this to work. I need advice on how to stop thinking/coop with this.

[GothicTsukiyomi]

First, I'll like to say I envy you. I wish I had the perfect fucking girl for me. But anyway. I think that if you think she is cheating most times your right. But in order to be sure of that you first have to know your own "Cheating-detecting ablities" And you gotta know what kinda girl she is. When I suspect a girl of cheating I am Always, ALWAYS right. But thats because I have a nac for feeling emotions and moods and spirits and shit (Got it from my mom). But if she is really hot you might just be paranoid the perhaps your not good enough for her. (From experence) But good luck bro.[/QUOTE]

[Quercus]

Its not as much that im afraid of her cheating on me as I am that I cant get over that she has been with 4 guys.
I can be a jealous guy at times
She told me she has never cheated on anyone, and wouldnt do it. I believe her (im usually good at detecting lies)
Heres a pic of her and Ihttp://img.tapatalk.com/ae9c3d59-0f3e-59ce.jpg

[Short Circuit]

I do not think what she has done in her past has anything to do with you. Were you expecting her to be a virgin? Come on, get a grip, enjoy what you have got between you, and move on.

[kenoloor]

I do not think what she has done in her past has anything to do with you. Were you expecting her to be a virgin? Come on, get a grip, enjoy what you have got between you, and move on.

This, dude. Don't dwell on an insignificant past detail that doesn't even involve you.

[unnamed94]

you cant expect to date someone whos never done anything with other guys before you. you shouldt make a big deal about it. you cant change what she has done, and if she now is dating you then who cares about what she did before with other guys. you like her, so dont ruin it with her

[CaliSublime]

Shes cute, dont blow it, if you really like her then you need to get over her history, she was honest with you and isn't hiding anything so you have no reason to think she'll cheat, you need to enjoy being with her and stop worrying if she hasn't given u a reson to be afraid. think about it, she fucked those guys but they must not have been that good if she didnt stick around

[Quercus]

Thanks guys.. Iv been really depresssed lately and cant really figure out why!! :'( fml

[BullDogg13]

Dude, shes with you know who cares? As long as she dont fool around with anybody while u 2 are together

[Louise]

If she can ignore your past, can't you ignore hers?

Lou

[Quercus]

If she can ignore your past, can't you ignore hers?

Lou

Your right, i need to stop overthinking shit :(

[Louise]

Your right, i need to stop overthinking shit :(

Excellent, now go and look after that special grl of yours :wub:

[Quercus]

Excellent, now go and look after that special grl of yours :wub:

I am, i bought her flowers yesterday <3 :)

[Louise]

Oh Jacob, that's a really nice touch, well done :)

[Quercus]

Thank you :D
She is pretty great! <3

[Silicate Wielder]

If your bothered enough by it. One possible way to learn if she's cheating on you, but it may not work, is to learn body language, preferably only what you need to know in order to tell, but its useful so in most cases just learn what you need, then learn the rest. I've just googled it and found several signals that are very useful for relationships.

[Gordo]

Just remember that her past is part of what makes her, her.

Maybe look at it this way. What if she was with 50 other guys and chooses to be with you? Or 4 guys?

Either way, she has some experience and chooses you. So her experience probably enables her to make better choices than .....maybe.... perhaps ....you?

See what I'm sayin? What if she's worried you'll wanna go sample more women some day? Right? That's nuts to think that way.

I'd look at it as she wiser for the experience and chooses you. If anything I would have been worried that the other dudes were better in bed than I am, but you got that area covered.

It's not like your unloveable. Or is it that you wonder why she is with you? If so ask her, she'll tell ya.

Confidence is attractive, being paranoid isn't.