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Cicero
March 20th, 2012, 10:52 PM
So I always stress out about the past, or what I've done years ago. How can I stop? Like me and my cousins were playing truth and dare, and with my school MacBook they dared me to take a pic of myself with my tongue using the mirror effect. After I did that I thought o deleted it, so a few days later someone was helping me with getting a pic or whatever for a powerepoint. He then opened some document I didn't know about and there pops up a pic of me doing the dare my cousins told me to do. I felt so embarrassed, I told him me and my cousins were playing truth and dare and he said yea of course you were...

2 years later and I still stress out about it. I don't go to shook there anymore but I feel devastated thinking about it. (my cousins dared me to have my tongue licking my other tongue using the mirror effect.)

Bpwoods97
March 21st, 2012, 12:28 AM
honestly i dont know how to answer this. I'd just ignore the people who don't believe you and know that you're right and they're wrong and probably just trying to piss you off. It's just a picture of you sticking your tongue out so why should it matter anyways? its just a picture and its not like it's dirty or anything.

kai99
March 22nd, 2012, 01:05 PM
It's your cousins fault not yours. Try to forget about it, play truth or dare with other friends to get better memories. Worked with me

Stronger
March 23rd, 2012, 05:18 AM
Its not your falut, but its just a tounge picture? Its nothing that is highly inapproprehate? So it's something you shouldn't stress over. Whenever you think about the picture, just laugh it off.

Cicero
March 24th, 2012, 12:05 AM
Its not your falut, but its just a tounge picture? Its nothing that is highly inapproprehate? So it's something you shouldn't stress over. Whenever you think about the picture, just laugh it off.

No, like you know when people have pics of them kissing themselves using the mirror effect. My cousins dared me to do that, but with my tongue. Like kissing myself with my tongue.....

Jabbawocke
March 24th, 2012, 12:25 AM
Er. That isnt really. ukno pervrted or anything, it is just an effect, not like u really kissed urself.. Dnt stress about that stuff, thats not important.. Stress about your life <3 Besides its not your problem if the guy you were doing the project is thinks ur weird, thats his opinion, and if you know that wut you did isnt weird ( its a damn dare man get a grip ) then you'll have no problem with this...

LitBlackRose
March 25th, 2012, 12:36 AM
Dude it was in the past I bet ur pretty much the only on that really cares plus it not ur fault it was ur cousin u shouldn't stress about it. It was all in the past

Jmihas
March 30th, 2012, 04:37 AM
It's better of you being naked and sent all the people in school.

Jmihas
March 30th, 2012, 04:37 AM
I mean it's better than being naked in school.

JJSSHH
March 30th, 2012, 11:42 AM
I do this all the time. Its extremely annoying, but theres things you can to to stop. Think about how its over, you probably wont see those people again, and they have all probably forgotten by now. Good Luck! :)

Sudds3
April 2nd, 2012, 10:23 PM
I can honestly say I dont regret anything Ive done, I think that if I didnt do that mistake then i wouldnt have learned from it and it wouldnt have made me the person I am today....a wonderful, unique, wierd and crazy person......Ive just recently learned to accept myself and sometimes struggle due to my depression and bullying, but I just say the past is the past...there is no way to change it so stop worrying about it and think about how its made you stronger



-Adam

Kaius
April 3rd, 2012, 04:11 AM
We all have those things we cringe and still feel crappy and embarrassed about, its human nature. Its just one of those things you need to get yourself over, its the past, its happened to everyone and you'll probably find most people have forgotten about it now.