Help me with my mates

[james wolf]

Can you help me rat out some curious/gay/bi people? (I mean rat out in the most innocent terms, you don't need to know why). first: Me and ny friends were playing football and One scored. Then we all hugged and one threw me on the floor and hey piled on me, in a friendly way. Are they full blown straight.. Or could they be persuaded... ?

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

Nothing here really suggests that your friends are gay or bisexual.

Also, you can't really 'persuade' someone do be anything other than what they are--any attempt to do so would be very unethical.

[Kaius]

As far as i know thats a typically football thing isn't it? Doesn't have to mean they're gay or whatever. As for outting them its not really your place, if they are gay which tbh there isn't much evidence to say they are let them come out in their own time, its their news to give no one elses.

[james wolf]

As far as i know thats a typically football thing isn't it? Doesn't have to mean they're gay or whatever. As for outting them its not really your place, if they are gay which tbh there isn't much evidence to say they are let them come out in their own time, its their news to give no one elses.

I don't mean to expose them I am looking for my fellow kin. I want to experiment with my sexuality as I am curious. another one: I made a joke about being gay and my mate says "i swear you make these jokes to hide the fact that you are actually gay" I say "you're treading on thin ice" next day he walks past me says gay jokingly and has said nothin since...?

[BeyondOne]

I think they are all just joking around dude. I mean, they could be curious like you, but it's just typical friends stuff to me

[zack17]

id think this i just normal friend stuff

[Electra Heart]

Um, you're serious right? So... the dog piled you... so you assume they're gay? I highly doubt that man, it's a common thing with sports, my friends and I do that all the time when we play tackle football outside, many of them are legitimately straight. Doggie piling should NOT set of your gaydar or whatever you guys think you have.

[kai99]

It's a pretty common thing, they just were happy

[babolat96]

I mean, I don't see anything gay about what they did, and if they're not gay or bi, then you definitely can't persuade them to be. It's not a plastic thing.