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Matt_is_Awesome
March 19th, 2012, 10:43 PM
Ok so if you guys havnt been following along in my other entries about this let's get you caught up!
So my ex girlfriend told me she cheated on me and that she didn't feel guilty at all. A month or 2 later comes our Spring trip for band and she picks the seat by me and explains herself telling me she feels horrible and I basically forgave her. We kinda made out on the bus and such she slept on my shoulder and stuff. I started to have feelings for her again. When we got back from the trip we went to the beach together and I held her and made out more because it was just in the moment you know and I starting liking her alot but idk if I can trust her again from our previous relationship.

What do you guys think i really like her and stuff but idk what to do? Date her, hold it off for a few weeks, months, days, or don't bother??

Thx guys your help is so much appreciated :)

User_Does Not Exist
March 19th, 2012, 10:45 PM
It's your choice man, do what feels right but just be prepared if it turns out like it did last time. Personally, me I would not date her again, I would be friends but nothing more than that.

Desuetude
March 19th, 2012, 11:05 PM
There was a reason you broke up with her and you need to know you can trust her before you think about going back out because without trust a relationship will result to nothing. In the end it's your choice and if you want to give her a second chance then to for it but like above says be prepared for it to turn to shit.

christianteen
March 20th, 2012, 12:55 AM
I'm not in the situation myself so asking other people isn't going to give a very accurate answer. All in all, it's your choice. Not hers, not ours, yours.

But if it was me in the situation I wouldn't go with with it. I'd be worried she'll cheat on me again.

TDB95
March 20th, 2012, 10:40 PM
Ive had a girl cheat on me before and it sucks i know but if you do get back with the girl like the way i did you might regret it because things wont be the same cause you may have a hard time trusting her hut the choice is your and only yours bro

Thunduhbuhlt
March 20th, 2012, 11:11 PM
Ok so if you guys havnt been following along in my other entries about this let's get you caught up!
So my ex girlfriend told me she cheated on me and that she didn't feel guilty at all. A month or 2 later comes our Spring trip for band and she picks the seat by me and explains herself telling me she feels horrible and I basically forgave her. We kinda made out on the bus and such she slept on my shoulder and stuff. I started to have feelings for her again. When we got back from the trip we went to the beach together and I held her and made out more because it was just in the moment you know and I starting liking her alot but idk if I can trust her again from our previous relationship.

What do you guys think i really like her and stuff but idk what to do? Date her, hold it off for a few weeks, months, days, or don't bother??

Thx guys your help is so much appreciated :)

If you like her, go after her!!! If you don't it will be too late and you may feel bad, and may not have that opportunity again. But you have to be sure that you can fully trust her again, or else you might get anxious and start snooping on her life and freak her out...

Just take it slow for now, but still go after her if you can forgive her and truly wanna be with her.