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colz
March 19th, 2012, 07:02 PM
So Over the past months (after years of thinking and contemplating) I have come to terms that I am 'Bi' if you'd want to put a label on me... I have come out to some friends (all girls so far) and they stand w/ me (2 being 'bi' themselves). I have equal feeling for both genders, along w/ a crush on this guy my age in my neighborhood (probably a hopeless dream that'll never happen XP)... honestly I don't see any reason to 'come out' to my school, if I come out I'll probably wait 'till college (doesn't make much sense to do it now in my mind... I guess this is kinda my way to process the information in my head by writing this... if you have anything to add (IDK) go ahead, but I am pretty comfortable with myself so yeah :P

wattado
March 19th, 2012, 11:13 PM
As long as your comfortable with your self thats all that matters :)

Desuetude
March 19th, 2012, 11:21 PM
Good for you. It's good youre so sure about your sexuality and like above user said as long as you are comfortable you don't need to come out at school or anything. Do what feels right for you.

ImCoolBeans
March 19th, 2012, 11:37 PM
That's good, man :) I'm glad that you've come to terms with your sexuality, it's a major step. Take your time with the rest of it, you don't need to rush and tell people. Only tell people if you're sure and comfortable with who you're telling, no body is making you do anything you don't want to :)

Stronger
March 20th, 2012, 02:19 PM
Glad to hear, you figured it out, and also thats great you have people that have accepted you. Coming out to anyone else, is all up to you; no one is forcing you, just do it when you believe is the right time.

farmer42296
March 20th, 2012, 08:24 PM
I'm bi but I haven't told anyone. I'm happy with the way I am so they can suck it up.