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TomDip
March 19th, 2012, 02:05 AM
I'm 16, going on 17 soon, and at my age i've sill never been in a relationship. I kissed a girl once at a party, but it was just a peck on the lips in "spin-the-bottle" and didn't mean anything. I've never had an actual, meaningful kiss. I want to change this, but I don't want settle for a girl i have no attraction to.

I guess I don't really have a problem talking to most girls as i have many friends that are girls, and talk to many others (most of them are out of my league). I asked a few girls out throughout my life, but its always been a "no" or "I prefer to stay friends." I've lost all motivation to strike up extensive conversations or text girls now, as i feel going through weeks or even months of getting close to a girl will just end in disappointment again. Is it normal for me to be "stuck" at this age? Shouldn't i have a lot more experience by now? What should i do?

dany
March 19th, 2012, 03:08 AM
Everyone starts doing things at their own pace. If you want to be in a real meaningful relationship, get the time to meet someone and spend a lot of time with them. Only when you feel the time is right you should suggest going out. Don't rush

Jabbawocke
March 19th, 2012, 09:31 AM
I'm 16, going on 17 soon, and at my age i've sill never been in a relationship. I kissed a girl once at a party, but it was just a peck on the lips in "spin-the-bottle" and didn't mean anything. I've never had an actual, meaningful kiss. I want to change this, but I don't want settle for a girl i have no attraction to.

I guess I don't really have a problem talking to most girls as i have many friends that are girls, and talk to many others (most of them are out of my league). I asked a few girls out throughout my life, but its always been a "no" or "I prefer to stay friends." I've lost all motivation to strike up extensive conversations or text girls now, as i feel going through weeks or even months of getting close to a girl will just end in disappointment again. Is it normal for me to be "stuck" at this age? Shouldn't i have a lot more experience by now? What should i do?

hark, thats normal. i may be 13,but ive read enough about stuff like this. sheesh dude, dnt go whack over girls. if continuing your family generation isnt a problrm, settle down. girls arent life. try living single and jst have a good time. Most girls are attracted to guys who just have a good time and dontflirt them up. Jst be naturral. and besides ur still young, life has plans for u :3

Stryker125
March 19th, 2012, 11:44 AM
Don't worry man, I'm the same way, only I'm 19.

Jmihas
March 19th, 2012, 01:03 PM
Well, you will find someone you love someday, it will happen, it may not happen now or sooner, be patient and get more friends and flirt.