No idea what I am....

[Stronger]

Okay so this has been bothering me for the longest time, and honestly I want some help. So for a while, I have been super confused about my sexuality. I feel I'm getting more and more attracted to guys, then girls. I don't think I'm totally gay, maybe Bi. With some guys I feel I get this strong attraction towards them, like this weekend I met this guy, and I got this connect, that I want to date him, real bad and stuff. I've been thinking if I could see myself with a guy, and I think yeah I could, and I certainly would love it. Its not just sexually, more emotionally I wanna be with one, I still think I'm not gay because I still have feelings for girls and I definetly would wanna have a life with one, because I do wanna start a family, but theres definelty an attraction to guys in me. Another example would be, certain places I go, ironically when I go on a cruise, theres always this one guy I get this strong ass attraction too, like I want them to talk to me, I miss the one I met back in May, we couldn't talk because he only knew Spanish and well I know none, but any, I'm getting off topic; what do you think? Am I Bi? and if I am, then I will execpt it of course.

[Jupiter]

actually, it sounds like you might be bisexual in the sense of emotional, but in sexual you just dont know. but, when it gets down to it, does it really matter? because, when you think about it, everyone is bisexual, even if it is the slightest bit.

[Stronger]

True, you are right, but it would give an idea :P

[Jupiter]

what do you think you are. just take a guess.

[Skeptical Bear]

I'd say you're Bi but since it's just coming in from what it sounds like you're saying, maybe you're getting used to it. Give it time for to find out. It took me a long time to acknowledge I was Bi.

[Stronger]

what do you think you are. just take a guess.



I'd say you're Bi but since it's just coming in from what it sounds like you're saying, maybe you're getting used to it. Give it time for to find out. It took me a long time to acknowledge I was Bi.

Maybe I just went and answered my own questions, I'd say Bi, maybe.

[ImCoolBeans]

I certainly do not think that you are gay, but it is possible that you're bi-sexual, as you stated. In fact, it really seems to me as if you are. Bi-sexuality, and sexuality in general, is very confusing. It's hard to figure out what your sexuality is, especially when you aren't entirely sure for yourself who you like, and when you do figure that it it can be confusing or you might not be accepting of your own thoughts. We can't tell you for sure what you are, since that is something that only you can be sure of, but we can help you figure some things out for sure.

If you haven't, try reading over this post (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182), which I wrote (including some other good information posted by two other users). It might help you settle some thoughts or feelings. You know how to contact me if you need anything :P

[Electra Heart]

Brandy, listen, look at the sticky, decide for yourself. I personally hate labels, and try to avoid them. FYI it can get SUPER complicated, apparently, I am a Hetero-romantic Homosexual xD

[Midland]

Do you need a label? I personally think that the labels we give ourselves in some circumstances, are paradigms which limit ourselves. Yes they aid in explaining yourself to others, but can't you treat it on an individual basis. If I see a guy that is hot, I don't think shit, i just noticed him, am I gay. I don't need to justify my thoughts or spend days thinking about them. In time you will find out where you stand, the question is whether you need a label to conform to and base decisions on?

However if you think you need a label, only you can tell. I would imagine discovering something like that would require a visit to the inner workings of your thoughts instead of a critiqued paragraph of details.

[Stronger]

Do you need a label? I personally think that the labels we give ourselves in some circumstances, are paradigms which limit ourselves. Yes they aid in explaining yourself to others, but can't you treat it on an individual basis. If I see a guy that is hot, I don't think shit, i just noticed him, am I gay. I don't need to justify my thoughts or spend days thinking about them. In time you will find out where you stand, the question is whether you need a label to conform to and base decisions on?

However if you think you need a label, only you can tell. I would imagine discovering something like that would require a visit to the inner workings of your thoughts instead of a critiqued paragraph of details.

Thanks

Brandy, listen, look at the sticky, decide for yourself. I personally hate labels, and try to avoid them. FYI it can get SUPER complicated, apparently, I am a Hetero-romantic Homosexual xD

Lol, okay thanks :P

I certainly do not think that you are gay, but it is possible that you're bi-sexual, as you stated. In fact, it really seems to me as if you are. Bi-sexuality, and sexuality in general, is very confusing. It's hard to figure out what your sexuality is, especially when you aren't entirely sure for yourself who you like, and when you do figure that it it can be confusing or you might not be accepting of your own thoughts. We can't tell you for sure what you are, since that is something that only you can be sure of, but we can help you figure some things out for sure.

If you haven't, try reading over this post (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=125182), which I wrote (including some other good information posted by two other users). It might help you settle some thoughts or feelings. You know how to contact me if you need anything :P

I've read it, but I'll look it over later today, thanks Mikey :P

[Mortal Coil]

Brandy, it doesn't matter what your sexuality is. "Bi" and "gay" are just labels that people slap onto other people.
I'm going to give you a label of my own:
AWESOME.
In all seriousness, everything I was going to say has already been said, so I have nothing real to add to this conversation :S

[Stronger]

Brandy, it doesn't matter what your sexuality is. "Bi" and "gay" are just labels that people slap onto other people.
I'm going to give you a label of my own:
AWESOME.
In all seriousness, everything I was going to say has already been said, so I have nothing real to add to this conversation :S

Thanks Alex, love that, lol

[CrossingtheCourtyard]

actually, it sounds like you might be bisexual in the sense of emotional, but in sexual you just dont know. but, when it gets down to it, does it really matter? because, when you think about it, everyone is bisexual, even if it is the slightest bit.

You know what, no I don't really think I believe the whole 'Everyone is bi' thing. Some people really couldn't be in a relationship with a same sex person (If they're straight), or opposite sex person (If they're gay), they really couldn't because they wouldn't feel satisfied and might not have the capacity to build a romantic and emotional bond or a physical attraction.

Okay so this has been bothering me for the longest time, and honestly I want some help. So for a while, I have been super confused about my sexuality. I feel I'm getting more and more attracted to guys, then girls. I don't think I'm totally gay, maybe Bi. With some guys I feel I get this strong attraction towards them, like this weekend I met this guy, and I got this connect, that I want to date him, real bad and stuff. I've been thinking if I could see myself with a guy, and I think yeah I could, and I certainly would love it. Its not just sexually, more emotionally I wanna be with one, I still think I'm not gay because I still have feelings for girls and I definetly would wanna have a life with one, because I do wanna start a family, but theres definelty an attraction to guys in me. Another example would be, certain places I go, ironically when I go on a cruise, theres always this one guy I get this strong ass attraction too, like I want them to talk to me, I miss the one I met back in May, we couldn't talk because he only knew Spanish and well I know none, but any, I'm getting off topic; what do you think? Am I Bi? and if I am, then I will execpt it of course.


To be bisexual one generally feels emotional, romantic, and physical attractions to both men and women--it doesn't have to be equal, and some people don't always feel all of those things towards both genders.

Also, you can have a family with a guy--adoption and surrogate mothers are an option. I just wanted to add that.

In all honesty, I can't tell you if you're bisexual or not. Only you can. If I had to guess, I'd say yes, you very well could be bi.

I've always had an attraction to girls and guys, it took be a long time to realize that I was bi; but some part of you probably knows inside if you are or not.

[Stronger]

You know what, no I don't really think I believe the whole 'Everyone is bi' thing. Some people really couldn't be in a relationship with a same sex person (If they're straight), or opposite sex person (If they're gay), they really couldn't because they wouldn't feel satisfied and might not have the capacity to build a romantic and emotional bond or a physical attraction.




To be bisexual one generally feels emotional, romantic, and physical attractions to both men and women--it doesn't have to be equal, and some people don't always feel all of those things towards both genders.

Also, you can have a family with a guy--adoption and surrogate mothers are an option. I just wanted to add that.

In all honesty, I can't tell you if you're bisexual or not. Only you can. If I had to guess, I'd say yes, you very well could be bi.

I've always had an attraction to girls and guys, it took be a long time to realize that I was bi; but some part of you probably knows inside if you are or not.

Thank you and I would want a family with a wife, I know other options, but thats how I feel but anyway thanks again, +1 for all.

[ShootingStar]

I don't think you should label yourself as anything-you don't need to! Jus live your life as you want, you don't need a label for that :)
ss...x

[Desuetude]

To me it seems like you're Bi but like every single other person in this thread has said. Dont label yourself! Just be you becuase Brandilina you sure are one awesome guy!! I have nothing to add, i just wanted to tell you!

[Stronger]

To me it seems like you're Bi but like every single other person in this thread has said. Dont label yourself! Just be you becuase [-]Brandilina[/-] KeKe you sure are one awesome guy!! I have nothing to add, i just wanted to tell you!

Thanks Nikki :P

[Kaius]

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