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Jake777dylan
March 18th, 2012, 03:51 PM
Ok well it seems like all girls judge me on my looks I look good just overweight so is it true that most skinny girls don't want a overweight teen like me it has really got me down lately

ImCoolBeans
March 18th, 2012, 04:09 PM
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Dimentio
March 18th, 2012, 05:19 PM
I am not going to lie, Girls today want looks and the hunky body.
But there are two larger kids in my school who always end up in relationships, The thing is that most girls want that the best guy, When they are never the best girl, But the girls who still want you for you, They are the girls that truely matter and as long as you like them for who they are, That is good :) So what i am saying is, Yeah their might be less girls who like you but as long as you like them for who they are, What does it matter how much like you?
There are some like that somewhere you just need to find them and wait for them :) Like i said abuot the two guys at our school and i am not the best looking guy but i have a few people who like me for who i am, Just wait is all i can say :)

Jake777dylan
March 18th, 2012, 05:47 PM
I am not going to lie, Girls today want looks and the hunky body.
But there are two larger kids in my school who always end up in relationships, The thing is that most girls want that the best guy, When they are never the best girl, But the girls who still want you for you, They are the girls that truely matter and as long as you like them for who they are, That is good :) So what i am saying is, Yeah their might be less girls who like you but as long as you like them for who they are, What does it matter how much like you?

Bro this really is true what you are saying but no matter how hard I try or look it I never can find a girl like that :/

Jmihas
March 19th, 2012, 01:19 PM
Yes, you can! Just don't be harsh on yourself and go to gym, if you think your overweight?

TomDip
March 19th, 2012, 03:02 PM
Your not alone buddy, i'm in the same boat as you.

TDB95
March 19th, 2012, 04:12 PM
Girls dont care about looks as much as you think they do girls like guus with confidence, which most of the time is the good looking guys i used to think the same way you did until i realized the more confidence i had the more girls i started to date and hook up with if you have confidence girls will loke you

TeddyBearRock
March 19th, 2012, 04:16 PM
I see your sig says your bi, if people know that. that could be a turn off to some girls

Sonic Boom
March 20th, 2012, 01:58 AM
From what I've seen, girls are attracted to how witty/funny you are. They want you to tease them confidently and humorously. This is why they always seem to fall for complete assholes.

Seriously, how many times have you seen a really ugly or old guy (who doesn't look rich or famous) hand-in-hand with a model on the street? Ever wondered about that?

However with guys its the opposite: attraction is based on looks 80%.

Abyssinian
March 20th, 2012, 06:18 AM
I've personally never dated any guy with "the perfect body." Last guy was borderline skeletal, and current guy is kinda chubby to be perfectly honest. But there is such a thing as too big imo.. admittedly I'm a little shallow, and a lot of people are a bit. Physical attraction IS important generally.

I know this may sound bad but it's the best advice I've ever received. If YOU are unhappy with yourself, change it. Put in the effort to feel good about yourself. If you are happy with yourself, then stuff anyone who thinks you're not good enough. Confidence will get you places too. =)