People I like...

[Antagonist]

So currently I am crushing on a couple of guys. Let's call them Guy A and Guy B.
Guy A: I've known him and been friends with him for a couple if years. He's straight. He just seems so nervous around both sexes. But he said if he was ever no or gay he'd have sex with me 0.0 that right there confused the hell out of me. All the girls he's went out with said hes not boyfriend material. He was literally FORCED to kiss his girl friend. Well, that's one of the main reasons why they're broken up. I care so much about him. Like a bro.

Guy B: he's the new kid at my school. He's in 7th grade. He's gay. But. People say he's weird. But like... The problem is he has no friends. And he seems so despondent at sad/mad all the time. I don't know how to approach him and talk. Maybe say "Hey. I heard you're gay. You're really cute"? Or is that too blunt or out there?

So my real question is... What do I do for each of these guys?

[Skeptical Bear]

So currently I am crushing on a couple of guys. Let's call them Guy A and Guy B.
Guy A: I've known him and been friends with him for a couple if years. He's straight. He just seems so nervous around both sexes. But he said if he was ever no or gay he'd have sex with me 0.0 that right there confused the hell out of me. All the girls he's went out with said hes not boyfriend material. He was literally FORCED to kiss his girl friend. Well, that's one of the main reasons why they're broken up. I care so much about him. Like a bro.


With your friend, I'd say to hint it off. But be careful on being "too blunt" bring it up carefully when you're hanging out with him or he's in your house.


Guy B: he's the new kid at my school. He's in 7th grade. He's gay. But. People say he's weird. But like... The problem is he has no friends. And he seems so despondent at sad/mad all the time. I don't know how to approach him and talk. Maybe say "Hey. I heard you're gay. You're really cute"? Or is that too blunt or out there?

That does sound too blunt. Go up to him and say "Hey. What's up?" Get to know him from there and talk every once in a while. And don't believe what the other kids say. When people see those kids that never speak and keep to them selves, then first thing they think is that they're weird and I met my share of shy friends and they weren't weird so see how it goes with him.

[Antagonist]

So currently I am crushing on a couple of guys. Let's call them Guy A and Guy B.
Guy A: I've known him and been friends with him for a couple if years. He's straight. He just seems so nervous around both sexes. But he said if he was ever no or gay he'd have sex with me 0.0 that right there confused the hell out of me. All the girls he's went out with said hes not boyfriend material. He was literally FORCED to kiss his girl friend. Well, that's one of the main reasons why they're broken up. I care so much about him. Like a bro.


With your friend, I'd say to hint it off. But be careful on being "too blunt" bring it up carefully when you're hanging out with him or he's in your house.


Guy B: he's the new kid at my school. He's in 7th grade. He's gay. But. People say he's weird. But like... The problem is he has no friends. And he seems so despondent at sad/mad all the time. I don't know how to approach him and talk. Maybe say "Hey. I heard you're gay. You're really cute"? Or is that too blunt or out there?

That does sound too blunt. Go up to him and say "Hey. What's up?" Get to know him from there and talk every once in a while. And don't believe what the other kids say. When people see those kids that never speak and keep to them selves, then first thing they think is that they're weird and I met my share of shy friends and they weren't weird so see how it goes with him.

For guy A, a am way far off blunt. Every day when I see him I say "Hey Nathan, my sexy friend!" and he blushes.

For guy B, I can try.

[Skeptical Bear]

For guy A, a am way far off blunt. Every day when I see him I say "Hey Nathan, my sexy friend!" and he blushes.

For guy B, I can try.


Look at that. It looks like with Guy A that he has some sort of emotional feelings for you. Maybe you should give it a try with him.

[Desuetude]

Well since Guy A is straight and you refered to him as a borther I don't suppose that's the best way to go. You can still care about someone lots without being in a relationship with them, it might just be a very strong friendship that you have and if he did end up saying yes if you asked him out and then something bad happened and you broke up things most definitly wouldn't be the same between you two. Would you risk that?

Guy B seems the best choice. Since he has no friends he would probably be very appreciative of you befriending him. I don't think "I heard you're gay" is the best way to go about it though as it sounds like people have been talking about him. Just start talking to him, maybe ask him round to your house? telling him he is cute would be a good way to go about it as well. It's up to you whether you want him to catch on to the fact that you like him or just let him think you are friends first. Don't worry about what people will think, it's not their decision about who you should be friends with. Like Eddy said, it seems like he has some kind of feelings for you so thats a plus.

[Jmihas]

I would say.. Try with Guy A first.

[Antagonist]

So many conflicting answers.

But. Guy A is a good friend, and I don't wanna risk that. But then again, why in the world would he say he'd have sex with me if he wasn't at least curious, right?

As for guy B. I don't know how to approach him. Hes making friends. And what if by chance he's straight?

[Desuetude]

So many conflicting answers.

But. Guy A is a good friend, and I don't wanna risk that. But then again, why in the world would he say he'd have sex with me if he wasn't at least curious, right?

As for guy B. I don't know how to approach him. Hes making friends. And what if by chance he's straight?
Well for A people do joke around about stuff lie sex sometimes. I know I do so maybe it wasnt intended to be taken seriously? If he is curious though then whether he says yes of no it would still affect your friendship In a big way. If you're going to ask him you need to decide if it's worth it or not.

Well you have already said that you say hi to him so just start up a conversation. He could always use some more, being new in school is always hard fitting in so you can never have to many people trying to help. Asking him and talking to him is the only way to find that out otherwise without getting it straight from him you're never going to be 100% sure.

[Antagonist]

Well for A people do joke around about stuff lie sex sometimes. I know I do so maybe it wasnt intended to be taken seriously? If he is curious though then whether he says yes of no it would still affect your friendship In a big way. If you're going to ask him you need to decide if it's worth it or not.

Well you have already said that you say hi to him so just start up a conversation. He could always use some more, being new in school is always hard fitting in so you can never have to many people trying to help. Asking him and talking to him is the only way to find that out otherwise without getting it straight from him you're never going to be 100% sure.

Perfect. That's perfect. I'll talk to them both, more easier with guy A. Thanks :)

[Desuetude]

Perfect. That's perfect. I'll talk to them both, more easier with guy A. Thanks :)

No problem, hope everything goes well for you. :)