experimenting with younger family menbers

[leafgreenangel]

tell me if this is inappropriate...so sometimes me and my nephew jerk off together... this sound weird but were only two years apart... my penis is 5.5inches and his is like 3.5 inches. i like to jack off with him but i feel like its wrong cause i'm older. he always mentions how mine is bigger and is enthusiastic to jack me off, but it feels weird jacking his smaller dick especially because i have big hands.
do you think its weird???
have you masturbated with someone who was older or younger than you??? what was the age difference???
was his dick noticeably smaller or larger than yours???

[Biljemclaude]

I did, age difference 4 years and he hadn't even started puberty yet, he had no pubes at all and a 2 inch dick I still went ahead with it. We were all like that oneday.

[Abyssal Echo]

My 1 friends little bro was 10 with like a 3" dick hard I had just turned 13 we would jo together do hj for each other but obviously was not a family member or related.

[ImCoolBeans]

I don't think it's really appropriate for you to be doing this with your nephew. You may be close in age and it might not seem so bad at the time, but when you're older the both of you will always have this tainted memory. I suggest you stop doing it, but it's your call.

[Voodoo]

I agree with 'ImCoolBeans' also it's not legal to do so due to he and also may be your self is under the age of 16. That is the age of consent in the United States and also most states in give or take. I would stop asap.

[CaliSublime]

Yeah man he sounds way too young, he's not old enough to decide on his own

[leafgreenangel]

its not like hes 8 or anything... hes 14 and im 16... im not trying to justify it im just saying i think things change a little if your older

[Stryker125]

Ordinarily I wouldn't have a problem with this, since you guys are so close in age..but since you're related, it could cause problems down the road.

[ImCoolBeans]

its not like hes 8 or anything... hes 14 and im 16... im not trying to justify it im just saying i think things change a little if your older

The age is beside the point, he's your nephew, do you really think it's a good idea to be doing private sexual things with your nephew?

[Voodoo]

Ordinarily I wouldn't have a problem with this, since you guys are so close in age..but since you're related, it could cause problems down the road.


Most experiments happen when they're related due to they see one-another more and trust one-another more. It just happens sometimes.

[RandomNobody1]

I think its a bit more taboo to do it with your nephew even if it is just a small age difference. I've done it with my brother before and it's no big deal, but that's a different dynamic.

[Antagonist]

I haven't done anything with my family members ~~ younger or older. But I do know it seems likely to happen within cousins or brothers since you're so much closer than any friend could be. Unless you hate them.
But nephews... I draw the line there. I'd stay within the brother/cousin/friend range with an age difference of at most 2 years.

[Atrociousness]

To me, nature is nature. Yeah, the memories might stick with you when you get older, but life goes on. If you guys are both fine with it, and he wants to do it, than I don't see a problem. But, yeah. I use to do this shit with my cousin a few times. Nothing too bad, like now we don't really make a big deal about it. It's the past, we we're young and trying to have fun. That's all.

[RHODRI11]

Me and my cousin always wank together , im 15 he's 13 , He asked me what porn was ... i showed him . He got a boner asked me what wanking was . I showed him he joined in .. Now we always have sleepovers and just have a wank together in full view with porn on 9and volume he's in the attic room . But we dont toss eachother off ......

[Thanatos]

As long as its consensual and you're both having fun I fail to see the problem. It's not like you were having sex.

Also I fail to see why it's a "tainted memory". That seems to be making a mountain out of a molehill.

[senior.2013]

I wouldnt recommend it. I suppose that if thats as far as it goes and youre both OK with it just dont go further.

[JJSSHH]

I think its fine if your 16, and hes 14. I see no problem with it. Its like what cousins would do.

[User_Does Not Exist]

Definitely not ok, you shouldn't do sexual things such as that with your family. It's not normal and when your older looking back you'll probably be disgusted.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

I say it's OK man

[KarkatLuv]

if both of you are mature i think it's ok, he will be trying to identify his sexuality, your helping him ease the confusion, plus it would be a bloody good time, so i fail to see a problem.

[MassiveAttack]

The age is beside the point, he's your nephew, do you really think it's a good idea to be doing private sexual things with your nephew?

I agree here. He is your nephew, and now for the rest of your life you will have these memories. If I did anything like this with my Uncle, i would probably never talk to him, or if I did, it would be incredibly awkward. I suggest you dont do this anymore.

[Jake777dylan]

Dude lol it's not weird if he's 14 :) e can make his own descions so if you wan to keep doing it its your call :) you should talk about it with him work things out

[Michigan48111]

It's ok if you both enjoy it, go for it.

[Thanatos]

Why does everyone act as if these memories will forever haunt you? Also if you are comparing it to your uncle, is your uncle that close in age to you? At that point your uncle becomes more of a friend then an elder family member.

I say as long as your both consensual and enjoying it why not? In the future you can look back at it and laugh, why should it disgust you any more then other experimentation would?

[iallen]

yeah i wouldnt do that with a nephew

[lambo640]

i wouldnt with my nephew but not thatt weird :/

[ianian]

doesnt seem like a problem if you both are ok with it

[Whoiskevin]

its normal my cousin and I do it he too is two years younger than me and my dick is 5.5 and his is like you said like 3.5 and he always comments on the size of my dick and he finds it somewhat amazing.....I had the same problem about the hand size and dick size try jacking each other off at the same time that way you are feeling hornier and it will be more fun for both of you

[Boroboii]

Ii dont see whats wrong with it, youre both old enough to know what your doing so carry on

[Gogeta]

i think its fine
I have done it with my cousin who is 2 yeah younger than e and he has very little pubes and about a 3in dick and he is always commenting on how big mine is!
Hahaha lol the hand size thing doesnt really bother me but lol
but i say if yous are both cool with it go for it. I think that when uncles and nephews are that close in ages they have more of a cousin relationship than uncle nephew

[adab95]

It's is ok Man! I fail to see the difference between Jacking off with a Nephew, a cousin, or a friend.

[riotroger]

I honestly don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it. You're both teenage guys, hormones are all over the place. You've both started and are going through puberty, if this wasn't the case (as in he hadn't started yet) then I would say its wrong, but you're both just having a good time lol xD. Yeah he's your nephew, but you're both very close in age and it doesn't sound like either of you feel bad about it. It's not like you're forcing each other to jerk together, and you're not manipulating him either. I would be surprised if either of you ended up scarred just because of something harmless like this.

But because he is family I personally would say avoid actually touching him sexually. I don't see anything wrong at all with jerking off together (side by side or whatever), but jerking each other off and anything more I think is going too far. If he was your friend I wouldn't think that was a problem, but that's not the case. Plus he is your nephew, so I think touching him sexually would definitely create repercussions. Even if he wants to now, you're older so have the will to set boundaries for you both.

Bottom line, I would say for both of you: Look but don't touch :D

[spartanrob]

I don't see the problem. You are both old enough to decide. If you are both enjoying it, no big deal.

[TheDxevilboy]

Well if you are related by blood I am not sure if it is incest which is illegal in some states?

[DevinDJR]

Umm. Time for my opinion.. So I agree on both sides 1) if u like doing it to him and he like doing it to you then keep doing it 2) now since you are family this is where it coul go worng in the future he can tell his mom that u touched him then you go to juvy and that sucks cause my dada friends brother who is 17 went to juvy for it when the other kid is 15 and that's his cousin.... We live I. The same state leaf except your in southern Cali but if I was ur nephew I would keep doin it until u got to be like 18 then I'd stop

[Sean4U]

Technically it is NOT incest, since incest is defined as blood relations to procreate....but now to your question...no I don't' think it is wrong if neither of you forced the other to do it...what is the difference between cousin/nephew or friends at that age difference?...nothing....my brothers and I have jacked off together both older and younger ...and only 2 years difference between me and them both ways

[Idk what to put]

Ifk it is ok bc it's not against his will

[david12]

i have we were 2 years apart i was older and i could tell his dick was smaller

[coreyorama]

i mean, flip aroudn how you say it... he jerks off with his uncle... its a littel odd, but its circunmstance i guess

[jamesh]

I've done it with a cousin, and it was perfectly fine, didn't feel weird. Obviously you're only 2 years apart so the uncle/nephew dynamic is way different to normal, and probably more like cousins. I agree that you should probably consider what it might do to your relationship down the line, but from what I've read, it seems like in the vast majority of cases, most people get on with their lives perfectly fine as adults even if both are straight.

If you want to put your mind at rest, talk it out with him. Communication overcomes most issues - real or imagined!

[WillGind]

I once jacked off with a friend about a year younger than me. His penis was a bit smaller than mine.

[hey_mister]

Well, it might be a little weird, if you're just jacking off with each other (not jacking each other off), then it might be okay, but still a little weird. It's up to you, but don't do anything more than just jacking off.

[chezhans]

Not entirely sure I agree with it but anyway...:/

[ralphcarmineleo]

that sounds like a blast. long as u both having fun sounds good to me

[targaryen101]

yeah its fine I have done all that stuff with a friend 2 years younger than me, and his dick was alot smaller then mine. dont worry even if it is your nephew, its not like you are 50 and he is 12 :D

[targaryen101]

Yeah thats totally fine i ahve dont all that with a friend 2 years younger, and my dick was heaps bigger then his. dont worry if he is your nephew its not like you are 50 and he is 12!

[Ethan3939]

I think it's cool. He just wants to feel good and your a safe way to do it. What does he think when you cum?

[Catholic Guy]

I did with my friend who is a year older than me and he was an inch smaller than me, I'm seven inches, if he's 15 and you're 17 it's not that inappropriate

[timjf123]

Did you say he jacks you off? If so then yes. I have jacked off with my 17 year old cousin but not jacked each other off...