Party Drugs

[swagguh]

Everytime I end up going to like a massive gatho or party or something like that. I ALWAYS end up smoking and drinking and shit. But like I kinda of hate getting high or drunk because I don't wanna go around saying secrets and shit that I don't want anyone to know. But I don't wanna seem pussy for not doing it. Whenever I am high I end up sitting down and trying not to anything. But I have no idea what to do. :confused:

[Electra Heart]

Don't go to parties? Gain the willpower to stop? If you're truly addicted to these things (and it doesn't sound like you're REALLY addicted), and since it doesn't sound like you're doing HARD drugs, ask a friend to help you or something.

[Truth]

... You did not mention what you "smoke". If you're smoking weed, I can't possibly understand your question. Weed does not make you do irrational things you wouldn't normally do.

So what exactly is it?

[Thunduhbuhlt]

You could always pretend to be doing those things if you are that worried about it, and i don't think anyone will care if you don't do those things for real.

[ImCoolBeans]

If you're truly concerned with it, it's best that you avoid the situation as a whole. Even hanging out with the same people who you do those things with greatly increases your chances to be influenced to do it again and again, although you have "stopped". When you have stopped or you are trying to stop you can't exactly go about everything the same way you did before.

[Ambrosia]

Just tell people you smoked before you came to the party, or you're still recovering from a pretty narly hangover from the night before.

I understand that just not going to parties is hard, it's not something you just stop doing for risk of losing social status and what not. So when it comes down to it, just lie. They'll all be too out of it to even notice anyways.

[Nellerin]

Just don't keep putting yourself into those situations until you gain a little more self control to not drink/do drugs at parties.

[Lego]

Yo ive been hammered before many times and didnt tell people any of my secrets. Dont worry about it. Past is the past. Ive had 1 moment im not proud of in my past but you just got to move on and accept the past cant be changed and you're better for it today. Just live your life and dont dwell on the past my friend, you'll thank yourself for it one day

[Gazmo]

when i get drunk i have never told anyone secrets. tbh i dont think i would just blab them randomly, yeah maybe theres a chance someone would tell people secrets if someone asked them, but they'd either be to drunk to ask or to remember in the morning.
if that makes any sense? :L

[loop15]

dont go

[deeda95]

my advice would be to stay home and find something else to do