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Lane97.
March 17th, 2012, 10:06 PM
Hey everyone. I've struggled a lot lately about my best friend and I's relationship. We have been so close since grade 4, and I always had a crush on her. I asked her out summer of 2011, and I totally ruined it. We did stuff, but there was no intimacy. I never really made a move. We held hands a few times, but I found it awkward. We never kissed. That's where I messed up. I had gotten the girl I wanted and I screwed it up. When the 2011-2012 school year began, we were at different schools, so we "took a break". That break hasn't ended yet. I love her to death and I would do anything for her. I think I want her back, but I don't want to cheat her out of the relationship she deserves again. I mean, since August, we have had our ups and downs, but things seem in a good place right now. I feel wrong for not simply talking about it with her, but it's where to bring the conversation after we say what we have to say. Advice, anyone? Thanks.

ImCoolBeans
March 18th, 2012, 11:31 AM
A lot of the time what's over is over. But if you feel so strongly about it, sitting around really won't help your cause. Speak to her about it, see how she feels and then the two of you can make a decision. Hopefully she feels similarly and things will work out for you.

Chicka15
March 18th, 2012, 03:16 PM
A lot of the time what's over is over. But if you feel so strongly about it, sitting around really won't help your cause. Speak to her about it, see how she feels and then the two of you can make a decision. Hopefully she feels similarly and things will work out for you.

I agree with this,I have a similar story like your but it ended up alot worse :/

Jmihas
March 19th, 2012, 01:24 PM
Take the risk and speak to her again.