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UnknownBoi98
March 17th, 2012, 09:33 PM
Hi Everyone The Names Dray . . Im New Too Virtual Teen & I Have A Problem So I Just Thought I Could Get Some Help ; Well I THINK Im Bi . But The Type Of Bi Where You Are Sexually Atrracted Too Guys & Emotionally Attracted Too Girls. A While Ago I Could Never Picture Myself MArrying A Guy Or Even Dating A Guy For That Matter . . Well Just Today I Was On Omegle [ The Site Where You Can Video Chat With Strangers] & i Met THis Guy ; We Talked ALL Day And I Told Him That I Was Bi And He Accpeted It ! I Was Really Suprised . I Asked If He Had ANY Interest In Men & He BASICALLY Told Me He Was Confused About His Sexuality . .So I Kinda THink He Is Bi . Well My Problem Is That This Is The First Emotionally Attraction I Have EVER Got To A Guy. He Is The Sweetest THing Ever & He's Not The Type Of Guy That Only Wants Too See My JUNK. We Talk Like We Have Known Each Other For A LONG Time & I Will Tell Him That He Is Sweet And Thaat He Is Cute & He Will SAy The SAme Back . .ANOTHER Problem Is That He Lives In Holland "Left Of Germany" And Talks Mostly Dutch . . But We Had A WHOLE Video Chat In English . . . I Just Need Help On What You Guys Think i Should Do . . . Tell Him How I Feel ; Leave It Alone ? I Just NEED Some Answers. . . Lemme Know Whatcha Guys Think :)

TurboDieselBandit
March 18th, 2012, 02:18 AM
Leave it alone. After talking with some people I have had the same feelings you are describing. However theres always the issue of distance, and thats the only reason I advise you don't get to attached. It would be totally different if you two could chat and hang out in person but since you cant, and because long distance relations seldom work, its not worth trying to create a relationship that will likely fail and make you feel worse than if you stop here. I know it sucks big time but you do have to be realistic; thats just how the cookie crumbles.

UnknownBoi98
March 18th, 2012, 07:53 AM
Yeah Thats What I Thought . . Well I Guess Life Goes On & Hopefully I Can Find Someone Else As Good As Him . . :/

Stronger
March 18th, 2012, 05:56 PM
Again the whole distace thing, I know how exactly it feels to be attracted to someone thats is far away, unforunatly it may be best to just move on from him, like the user above said, getting to close could make things worse. Just remember you have your whole life to find someone, I'm sure theres someone waiting to find you :), I wish you luck with finding someone.