Mending

[bwl17]

So I have had this friend since kindergarten and we were best friends up until a couple years ago. Between school years during the summer we didn't talk or hangout as much as usual. When the next school year came around, he wouldn't even talk to me. Things have gotten a little better but we never talked about what happened. It's been almost three years and its not like it used to be. Should I bring it up or just let it be? Should I tell him I want to be his best friend again or is that weird?

[LifeisLife]

i think it kinda depends on who your friends are now, and who are his. if you two grew apart completely then it'd be like two worlds clashing, and that never really goes right. have you guys been talking more often lately, as in like every day/week?

[Desuetude]

What Pim said is true. It all depends on how much you've grown apart, If you run in completely different circles now then I wouldn't bother because it's most likely going to end up badly but if you don't think he has changed much and you can still trust him then jsut start hanging round him more. Don't ask him to be friends again because yes, that is weird but if you just start hinting that you want to start something up then if he is interested in restarting your friendsip then he will accept you, if not then I think it's time to move on.

You've probably seen this but if not here is a guide to help fix a broken friendship (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=305940&postcount=1)

[bwl17]

We hang out with the same people we just don't really talk. We have been a little mor lately because we have a class but it's still awkward

[Stronger]

If you feel you wanna be friends, again (close) then talk to him, seems you two have drifted quite a bit. Do you both have anything in common anymore? If not then maybe thats why you two aren't close. Maybe he thinks you two shouldn't be friends, I don't know, since I don't know him, but if you feel you want to revive the friendship, then talk to him.