Why are some girls like this, please calm me down!

[DreamSeeker]

So met a really nice girl a while back, close to my age, liked everything I liked and we got on really well together. Texting all day and everything.

We met up again last week and again got on really well, from the minute she left she stopped texting me. Then refused to reply to my texts, I got a reply later that week claiming she was busy. But then I've noticed Facebook statuses get posted whilst I'm online whilst she is supposedly busy.

It's been a week now and she still hasn't spoke a word to me. I fear I've said something wrong or done something wrong but she won't tell me. I mean we got on so well until that night.

Just anyone care to calm me down? I get really annoyed and stressed about these sorts of things. She was leading me on and I started to like her, and she acts like she liked me. Then this happens and it's just messed me over. I would have rather her tell me she's not interested instead of lying and ignoring me, if that!

[Lethe]

A lot of girls are like that, especially the ones who are shallow. I'm not the kind of girl that does that, but no guy is padding after me, so I guess I'm just a stupid idiot.

It's not your fault she's like that.

[RCT109]

A lot of girls are like that, especially the ones who are shallow. I'm not the kind of girl that does that, but no guy is padding after me, so I guess I'm just a stupid idiot.

It's not your fault she's like that.

Lethe is right and Im going throught the same thing right now but I know what I said and I was right but I digress. Not every girl is shallow but some are

A word of advice calm down with the texting maybe thats it but if nothing else take some time away from her let her come to you

hope I helped
Shawn

[bounce]

I would have to agree with Shawn.
I bet she is just seeing what you would do in a situation like your in now.
If anything she is just playing hard to get.

[Desuetude]

Yes girls like to play games and whatnot, she probably knows it's going to make you feel like this so she does it to make you want her
Just calm doing with the texting or Skype, be a bit off hand with her. Basically play the same game she is playing. Give it a couple more days and if she doesn't talk to you make a status something you know she will want to ring out about so she will have to ask you.

[Mortal Coil]

I'll never truly understand it either but she may be playing hard to get or it's possible that she heard a really bad rumor about you, believed it, and now thinks you're a psycho or something.
I am, or course, saying that as a person who goes to a school where there are shitloads or fake and ridiculous rumors.
Just talk to her up front, ask her why she's been ignoring you. Preferably in person and alone, although I know that can be difficult.

[RCT109]

I'll never truly understand it either but she may be playing hard to get or it's possible that she heard a really bad rumor about you, believed it, and now thinks you're a psycho or something.
I am, or course, saying that as a person who goes to a school where there are shitloads or fake and ridiculous rumors.
Just talk to her up front, ask her why she's been ignoring you. Preferably in person and alone, although I know that can be difficult.

Shes right I know I already gave advice but Like what evil.angel said

it could be a rumor, if it is then it is. also try talking to her alone but dont make it awkward for either of you, because the last thing you want is to make it worse.

Personally I always have an "if all else fails" plan. For me it is to just get one of her friends you know to talk to her about it and see a what she says.

thats worked for me many times.

A word of caution though. If its been over a week do not post anything on Facebook or anything else just send her one last text saying you need to talk to her and leave it at that


again Hope I could help
Shawn

[Jmihas]

People dosen't text all the time and it could be a rumor also try talking to her alone, talk to her any day afterwards.