I Like My Guy Friend

[TaylrJ]

I have posted a lot of questions on this.. Most being on Yahoo Answers. But posting questions is pretty much the only way I can deal with this. Since he is all I think about. I am not gay, maybe bisexual. I am 14, and I have liked this guy for about 2 months now. He is 13 himself, about to turn 14. I don't think he is far enough into puberty to realize he is gay. However, I can defiantly tell he is. Just by his behavior. He'll probably realize it in a few more years. I don't talk to him very often either. I don't think we really know each other well enough and he is pretty immature too. Making it real hard to get a long with him. Because he is so childish and takes everything as a joke. I think he may know I like him. Because in class he sits in front of me at a table (we are in groups) and I placed my foot right next to his and he didn't have a problem. He has done the same thing to me too. Just rubbing his foot on mine under the table. I didn't really think anything of it because he does that to most guys. Like go up and jump on them, letting them push him around, or while talking to them rubbing their arm. So it began to make me think him doing to to me too didn't mean anything. Just wishful thinking on him liking me back. Him sitting in groups with me is probably the only time we get to talk. I have only one other class with him but he spends most of his time talking to other people, same at lunch. I thought that whenever we both grow up and mature a little more. He would most likely end up being gay and if I would end up being bi, we would date. He is going to move away at the end of this year making that nearly impossible. And today he was moved away from me in groups. Now we don't talk hardly any. It is just so frustrating liking somebody so much and having zero contact with them. And even if I wanted to tell him about how I feel he wouldn't understand, take it as a joke, and probably go tell all his friends. I just want to be with him so badly and it is making it so hard to live with this right now. Sometimes I just wish he would move away already so over time I would stop liking him and we could both move on. I also wish, since time is going down the drain with him moving and all. I could spend every moment I can with him before he moves. Without him knowing I like him.. I am just sick of feeling all depressed because I am never with him.. What do you think about this situation and what should I do? Ignore him? If no, then what should I do to bring up conversation or to just spend some time with him? Thanks.

[nicholas79]

I like two of my guy friends, their names are Isaiah and Joel. They are cute

[Stryker125]

Start a conversation with him, mention you wanna hang out more. Just because he's moving doesn't mean you'll automatically stop liking him. Next time you see him, just ask if he wants to hang out or something. Maybe even if he and a few other people so he feels comfortable...

Also, he might not even be gay, he's probably just super nice. Just sayin'

hope I helped...if you ever wanna talk, feel free to PM me

[Djentleman]

Get to know him a bit better first man and then give him some time too warm to you. When you guys know each other a bit better and he knows he definitely likes you then ask him about being in a relationship with him.

[Antagonist]

Good god... You made me cry D:

Isn't it a pain? To like someone but know you can't get close enough in time?

See what you do is... You try as hard as you can to know him WELL enough. Then you ask him to come over.... Ladadada friendship ladadada. If you have a phone ad he has one, get it.
Ibd out to where he's moving. If its too far away for you to even consider askin him out in the future, try to build a barrier between friends/best friends/boyfriends. I promise it will help. I had to do that with my best friend who moved to Georgia.

And if you feel as if you're gonna get too close and end up losing him... Keep him as a stranger.

Side note- the touch thing. It seems to be a flirt thing or a friendly thing. Try to establish what that is.

Hope this helps...

[TaylrJ]

Thanks.. I started to talk to him more often. Now I am questioning if HE may like me. I notice if I talk to him he reacts different than everyone else. He is always first to message me on facebook and one night he was with a lot of friends and called me for no real reason, just to talk.. I think he just tries to find ways to talk to me.. Just some of the most randomest things so he could find an excuse to talk. I also see him staring at me. Walking down the hall, I would glance over at him and he would be staring me down. Looking away if I noticed. It made me thing could he like me back? How could I even find this out? WITHOUT asking. Because that would just be awkward. What are some ways to hint to him that I like him? What are some ways to flirt with him and some more ways to tell if he likes me? Thanks...

[Tyryham]

I would just make sure he's gay ... maybe wait for hime to come out to you..I told my friend I was bi yesterday.

[Antagonist]

Thanks.. I started to talk to him more often. Now I am questioning if HE may like me. I notice if I talk to him he reacts different than everyone else. He is always first to message me on facebook and one night he was with a lot of friends and called me for no real reason, just to talk.. I think he just tries to find ways to talk to me.. Just some of the most randomest things so he could find an excuse to talk. I also see him staring at me. Walking down the hall, I would glance over at him and he would be staring me down. Looking away if I noticed. It made me thing could he like me back? How could I even find this out? WITHOUT asking. Because that would just be awkward. What are some ways to hint to him that I like him? What are some ways to flirt with him and some more ways to tell if he likes me? Thanks...

Ask how far he'd go with a guy... That kinda says "Hey I'd do more with you than just talk" in a way.

[DurianTemetriusBurch]

I have posted a lot of questions on this.. Most being on Yahoo Answers. But posting questions is pretty much the only way I can deal with this. Since he is all I think about. I am not gay, maybe bisexual. I am 14, and I have liked this guy for about 2 months now. He is 13 himself, about to turn 14. I don't think he is far enough into puberty to realize he is gay. However, I can defiantly tell he is. Just by his behavior. He'll probably realize it in a few more years. I don't talk to him very often either. I don't think we really know each other well enough and he is pretty immature too. Making it real hard to get a long with him. Because he is so childish and takes everything as a joke. I think he may know I like him. Because in class he sits in front of me at a table (we are in groups) and I placed my foot right next to his and he didn't have a problem. He has done the same thing to me too. Just rubbing his foot on mine under the table. I didn't really think anything of it because he does that to most guys. Like go up and jump on them, letting them push him around, or while talking to them rubbing their arm. So it began to make me think him doing to to me too didn't mean anything. Just wishful thinking on him liking me back. Him sitting in groups with me is probably the only time we get to talk. I have only one other class with him but he spends most of his time talking to other people, same at lunch. I thought that whenever we both grow up and mature a little more. He would most likely end up being gay and if I would end up being bi, we would date. He is going to move away at the end of this year making that nearly impossible. And today he was moved away from me in groups. Now we don't talk hardly any. It is just so frustrating liking somebody so much and having zero contact with them. And even if I wanted to tell him about how I feel he wouldn't understand, take it as a joke, and probably go tell all his friends. I just want to be with him so badly and it is making it so hard to live with this right now. Sometimes I just wish he would move away already so over time I would stop liking him and we could both move on. I also wish, since time is going down the drain with him moving and all. I could spend every moment I can with him before he moves. Without him knowing I like him.. I am just sick of feeling all depressed because I am never with him.. What do you think about this situation and what should I do? Ignore him? If no, then what should I do to bring up conversation or to just spend some time with him? Thanks.

i think it is normal and if u have feelings for him let him know dont care what people say about fuck their opining its ur love and if u like let him know the fuck
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