Best Friend

[AntBar23]

So my best friend that i have known for 10 years got REALLY PRETTY and i found myself liking her a lot. She said were like siblings and unseperable. Should i ask her out?

[noster420]

Yeah go for it, ik what u mean. I have the same situation but being 600 miles away from my girl theres no point in asking her out. But I think she has feelings for you if you guys have been best friends for 10 years. Because IMO with her growing up around you and always being with you she grows to like people that like you.
That's just my 2 cents though.

[HeatRush]

So my best friend that i have known for 10 years got REALLY PRETTY and i found myself liking her a lot. She said were like siblings and unseperable. Should i ask her out?

Well since you've been friends with her for 10 years then she only might see you as a friend and not a boyfriend.

[Neptune]

Prepare for her to say no.

[Magenta]

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating as you may get better answers here.

Do you only like her now because she's gotten really pretty? If so, that's not usually the best reason to ask someone out. Asking someone out who is a good friend does have its risks because the friendship dynamic could change afterward. But you obviously get along really well so if you do really like her, it's your call. If you do, good luck.

However, she said you're like siblings which can be an indicator that the feelings may not be mutual.

[botwa]

sure! you're really close after 10 years so I guess it wouldn't be a problem

[Ussb823]

Well, I was in the same position once, and she turned me down, but I'm going to be persistant, she is worth it. If you've been friends for taht long, chances are she is worth it to you. Just make sure it does not affect your friendship, a good friendship is worth WAY more than a relationship.

[Desuetude]

If all you're asking her out for is her looks then I don't think it's worth it, you need to like her for who she is and he personality but sincere you've been best friends im guessing you do.
Her describing your relationships as being like siblings may not be the best indicator to ask her out. That generally means she sees you as a brother and would therefore treat you like a brother. I don't think it's worth 10 years of such a strong friendship because if the feeling isn't mutual then things could get pretty awkward, she could get freaked and like the user above me said a god friendship is worth way more than a relationship. Also what would happen if you did decide to go out and then ended up breaking up, you can't expect your friendship to still be intact then. So you need to choose whether you want to take the risk and gamble everything or stick with just being friends because it's only up to you.

[AWSUMguy]

No offense, but be prepared for her to say "I only see us as friends, it be weird between us if we break up", or summing like that

[WoShiDavid95]

I personally feel that you should go for it, but you must be wary of the consequences, as stated by the posters above.

[Chicka15]

Be prepared to enter the "friend zone"

[Jmihas]

Be romantic and flirty for a while before you ask her out!