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XxAssasiNxX
March 15th, 2012, 05:55 AM
Not sure if this is in the right section... But i really want some awnsers. So this kinda hurts to talk about but i want some advice...:( so yesterday the truth came out of who i like....everywone now knows. Especialy my crush. We havent even talked since yesterday. so anyway today last period or something my freind asked her.. The question he said;do u know who likes you... She said yes dylan. Then she said she barely even knows me(i was at the locjers while this was happening) then he asked what she thought of me again replying with ; i barely know him and then... My freind when he said it to me just said she wanted me to fuck off... Im not sure if he just said that cause the rest was wirse or he just forgot. So after school he told me... He then said; dont worry dude she was just a bitch and ur way to good for her... I replied with rhanks dude; im over her now... So we just went and did other stuff after. But i couldont get it out of my head.. I couldont get over her more importantly. I wanna get over her. But i guess im ver VERY confused. U see she was allways nice. She wasant a bitch we taled whenever and we were prety freindly around eachother. And also today before this in class i allways saw her looking at me or somewone else....really weird. But then she said fuck off to me like what does that even mean. why did she say that.... was she trying to cover sometjing up. Cause she allways seemed pretry nice around me. and we were offten embarrsed around eachother rhe past 2 days. So im really confused and id love some feedback. Ik also not copping very well with her tellin me to fuck off. Im a bit depressed..... Also has this happend to u or somewone u know?!!:(

Mortal Coil
March 15th, 2012, 06:08 AM
Try not to think about it. Do something else, preferably something violent-ish like playing soccer, dancing like a moron to hardcore music or just anything to get your energy out.
You might want to talk to her in person, because from what you say I'm not 100% sure I trust your friend. Worst comes to worst, do what has worked for girls throughout the ages: pop a film into the DVD player or your computer and pig out on ice cream.

XxAssasiNxX
March 15th, 2012, 06:11 AM
Try not to think about it. Do something else, preferably something violent-ish like playing soccer, dancing like a moron to hardcore music or just anything to get your energy out.
You might want to talk to her in person, because from what you say I'm not 100% sure I trust your friend. Worst comes to worst, do what has worked for girls throughout the ages: pop a film into the DVD player or your computer and pig out on ice cream.

Wtf pop a film into the dvd player or your computrr and ig out on ice cream wtff:what:

Mortal Coil
March 15th, 2012, 06:13 AM
as in, watch a film and eat a ton of ice cream. I'm serious.

XxAssasiNxX
March 15th, 2012, 06:35 AM
as in, watch a film and eat a ton of ice cream. I'm serious.

Oh im so gonna do that on the weekend. Then im gonna liten to skrillex non srop whil dancing like an idiot. Anyways i also think maybe shes just not mature enough. Ive hit puberty badly and ive matured alot. Mostly eveywone is in puberry now... But maybe they havent just quire yet marured like i have...

Mortal Coil
March 15th, 2012, 07:04 AM
Anyways i also think maybe shes just not mature enough. Ive hit puberty badly and ive matured alot. Mostly eveywone is in puberry now... But maybe they havent just quire yet marured like i have...

That happened to me too, with hitting puberty early. Honestly she might have a crush on you and just be too scared to admit it even though she knows you like her, just because she's immature. But whatever, you go to school tomorrow and then dance to skrillex like an idiot (Y)

Buranri
March 15th, 2012, 06:12 PM
While this may not help... can you at least try to spell correctly? Your posts are impossible to read.

Stryker125
March 15th, 2012, 06:38 PM
I can't say I've dealt with this exact thing, but I've definitely dealt with rejection...girls just don't seem to like me very much. Anyways, did you hear her say youshould fuck off yourself, or did someone tell you? Just wondering, because sometimes things end up sounding different than how they were actually said.

You could always try the movies and ice cream thing, sometimes it works. You could also try other things to get your mind off of it. Try not to worry about it man. You seem like a pretty good guy, and there's plenty of fish and the sea. You should get a friend you really trust and let em know you're down, hang out n stuff, ya know? Friends are good for that kind of stuff...anyways, I hope you feel better man, and you can always PM me if you ever wanna talk

XxAssasiNxX
March 16th, 2012, 12:55 AM
:DWhile this may not help... can you at least try to spell correctly? Your posts are impossible to read.

Yeh i know i post these usally on my phone... Im sorry for the mistsakes

CaliSublime
March 16th, 2012, 09:51 AM
Maybe you just needed to ask her out on your own, she might have gotten mad or uncomfortable that u liking her turned into gossip/rumors

Ussb823
March 17th, 2012, 05:55 PM
Ah bro, those are hard. If she told your friend to tell you that, then you are probably better off without you.
Well getting over her best things to do....
Try to concentrate on something else whether a new video game or exercise.
Hang out with your buddies, they help a lot.
Talk with your closest friends, chances are they will give you great advice.
Find someone new, ah this helps many.