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Wonton
March 15th, 2012, 12:26 AM
Well here's the thing, I'm 14 and I recently went to a camp in the winter and met up with a public school kids, and we all got along but i still kinda felt different a lot of the time because i'm from private school, and I guess things aren't so 'crazy' or whatever, but I'm 14, and I dont' even have any experience with girls or anything. Like i know it's embarrasing but I've neverh ad a girlfriend or gotten a BJ or had sex or anything, and I kinda felt awward hanging with all these kids when they started up the 'oh what's the largest tit size' conversation kind of thing... sorry for the wierd post but my main question is that is it normal to not have gotten any 'Action' by the AGe of 14? please be honest with me and don't just tell me no because you feel bad for me.....

justsum1anonymous
March 15th, 2012, 12:33 AM
Yup... I'm 14 too and I have no experience..... It's normal I guess

Wonton
March 15th, 2012, 12:37 AM
nice to know there's at least one guy like me... i mean i guess part of it is I don't have that much confidence around girls which usually screws me over......Most of the guys in my school usually have a chance of getting girls but I don't. :/

Victor
March 15th, 2012, 12:39 AM
Well here's the thing, I'm 14 and I recently went to a camp in the winter and met up with a public school kids, and we all got along but i still kinda felt different a lot of the time because i'm from private school, and I guess things aren't so 'crazy' or whatever, but I'm 14, and I dont' even have any experience with girls or anything. Like i know it's embarrasing but I've neverh ad a girlfriend or gotten a BJ or had sex or anything, and I kinda felt awward hanging with all these kids when they started up the 'oh what's the largest tit size' conversation kind of thing... sorry for the wierd post but my main question is that is it normal to not have gotten any 'Action' by the AGe of 14? please be honest with me and don't just tell me no because you feel bad for me.....

Dont stress yourself about it (:
I was quite a sheltered child too (sheltered means you dont know sexual stuff
And Im almost 16 and i know quite a lot about.. the sex topic, just give it time, you'd know more about sex and get some experience soon, just dont force it too much, you'll figure it out

justsum1anonymous
March 15th, 2012, 01:12 AM
Have confidence in yourself and be proud of who you are. And things always work out. There is nothing to be shy of in front of girls... They're humans too!!

BJustinT
March 15th, 2012, 01:27 AM
It is normal, I had my first bj when I was 16

Abyssal Echo
March 15th, 2012, 02:44 AM
Idk dude whats normal ??????

I'm 14 done it all many times with a guy plus had a bj and intercourse with 2 girls. :) Damm dude the way ur talkin though makes me glad I ended up in public school. :D

CuriousDestruction
March 15th, 2012, 07:49 AM
dude some people don't start having sex until college. There is no normal age to start having sex honestly.

Wonton
March 15th, 2012, 10:06 PM
Idk dude whats normal ??????

I'm 14 done it all many times with a guy plus had a bj and intercourse with 2 girls. :) Damm dude the way ur talkin though makes me glad I ended up in public school. :D
You make me feel so much better with your mocking talk and smily faces. :/

BlueBanana
March 16th, 2012, 05:10 AM
I was 18 the first time I got any action with a girl. Dude, there's nothing to worry about. Your time will come!

russsh
March 16th, 2012, 05:53 AM
most of what ppl say they've done they haven't just be yourself!

Short Circuit
March 16th, 2012, 06:11 AM
When you are ready to have sex, your body will tell you, untill then, just keep the kleenex and your right/left hand at the ready.

NephilimAzrael
March 19th, 2012, 12:00 PM
15, no hjs, bjs, or sex, and not planning on going there any time too soon, so just don't worry =) sides, the earlier u start, the more people ur with, the higher ur chances of STD's r unless u wait for a girl whose a virgin like u

CryWolf
March 19th, 2012, 12:51 PM
There is no normal age to be sexually active or experienced. It's normal to be curious and to want it, but as far as when to engage in it is totally up to you and the other person that will be involved. Don't worry yourself about it. Take your time.

ClayzWorld
March 19th, 2012, 02:22 PM
Bro you gotta just go for it! But be responsible though. Your chances are better if word gets out that you are interested in it. When you feel like you are closing in on your goal, be sure to start packing a condom wherever you go.

Philleeep
March 19th, 2012, 02:34 PM
Well here's the thing, I'm 14 and I recently went to a camp in the winter and met up with a public school kids, and we all got along but i still kinda felt different a lot of the time because i'm from private school, and I guess things aren't so 'crazy' or whatever, but I'm 14, and I dont' even have any experience with girls or anything. Like i know it's embarrasing but I've neverh ad a girlfriend or gotten a BJ or had sex or anything, and I kinda felt awward hanging with all these kids when they started up the 'oh what's the largest tit size' conversation kind of thing... sorry for the wierd post but my main question is that is it normal to not have gotten any 'Action' by the AGe of 14? please be honest with me and don't just tell me no because you feel bad for me.....

Im sorry but im 16 and im still like this with a girl >.< I started my first official relationship with a girl last saturday and all we do is hug and hold hands. I generally think that im glad to have waited this long. To find someone more meaningful and someone who is willing to do things how they should and at a steady pace, Im not planning on rushing anything, any time soon.

Swagging god
April 25th, 2012, 06:37 AM
In all honesty, there is no "normal" age for getting a blowjob or having sex. Everyone is different. Whenever you feel is the correct moment when the opportunity present itself will be your moment. I got my first bj at age 9 and lost my virginity at age 14. Like I said everyone is different and what's possible for me may not be posssible for you but it doesn't make you any less of a man/male~ Swagging god

boosterboy1
April 25th, 2012, 02:15 PM
Dont stress yourself out about it, it's normal

brady 321
April 25th, 2012, 02:48 PM
i have never had sex yet but i really want to

MJohn
April 25th, 2012, 02:52 PM
Probably 60% of 14 year olds had no experience but the world is changing now. Kids are starting early, my first was when I was 13.