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AbrynFait
March 14th, 2012, 08:37 PM
I have somewhat of a problem. Besides general issues with making friends, I have a more concentrate problem in that same facet. I simply cannot--no matter how much effort I put forth in effort--talk to (or make friends with) other guys, (primarily in person). I try so hard to make friends, and to talk to other people besides my ten trillion and a half girl-friends, but I feel this almost "sicky" feeling every time I try--without fail. And, for example, I'll push through myself and find myself in a conversation with another guy, and I feel dirty almost, like I'm less of a person, (if that makes any sense [I'm sure I'm probably wacko]). It's an innate, and very implausible feeling that overcomes me.

Help? I'd like to fix this, but unsure how to approach the subject objectively.

dark_soul777
March 14th, 2012, 10:26 PM
As far as I'm concerned, it doesn't really matter whether friends are guys or girls. Almost all of my friends are girls and in general they just seem alot nicer than most guys.
If you want to make friends with some guys, perhaps you could try not to think about how they're guys or even imagine them as girls.