Immoral? Unethical?

[Gandalf]

Trying to word this carefully.
Is it so terrible that I want to "hook up" with the opposite sex soley to determine my sexuality,?
I feel like if I don't do it soon then I'll end up im the predicament of lying to myself for the rest of my life. -
I've said this before, but if I realise that truely deep down I'm actually gay, I would rather confront that sooner rather than later. (The confusion and uncertanty is stressful)

But it seems horrible that the first thing on my mind (if I find a girlfriend) will be sex.
I really am not proud of myself for it, it's unfortunately true even though it goes against my morals. I feel like a horrible monster.
Any thoughts on this are greatly appteciated.

[CuriousDestruction]

As said above^ you have plenty of time to discover your sexuality. And odds are you won't need to end up sleeping with someone to find out. Right now i'd recommend just going with the flow and hooking up with whomever you are interested in, guy or girl. Worry about labels later.

[AltoVaughn]

I don't think it's necessary to have sex with anyone to determine your sexuality. It's more important that you distinguish who you're emotionally attracted to. You can honestly have sex with anyone. However... which gender do you actually fall in love with ?

[KTluv95]

Judging your sexuality based on actual sex is probably not the right measuring stick...to be crude both sexes have holes you can stick your junk in lol...as said above your sexuality is more about which sex you emotionally connect with...like I've done stuff with girls cuz sex is fun but I dont consider myself to be lesbian cuz I dont actually feel anything with them

[ImCoolBeans]

Just like who you like and don't be in a rush to label yourself so quickly. You're only 15, odds are in a few years you'll find out your sexuality.

I couldn't agree any more than I do. You'll find yourself in time, labels get thrown around and changed so often, just take your time and you'll figure it all out.

[Gandalf]

I guess I shouldn't be that focussed on sex, but I just feel exhausted by periodically being confused and it just seems to me that I need to figure it out for my own peice of mind.
I hat being wishy washy and just seem to be desiring certainty in my life.

Thanks everyone. Cleared my mind.