climaxing too early

[mynameisjane]

so i hear its not a good thing if a guy climaxes too soon. but is it a bad thing if a girl climaxes too soon?

[MoveAlong]

I'm gonna have to do some research, but can I ask how long? Why do you consider it too early?

[mynameisjane]

haha, well when i masterbate, i get it done quickly because i dont want to waste time. i usually get it done in about 5 minutes. and i have a guy friend who brags about lasting 45 minutes and i couldnt imagine even wanting to last that long because it seems like it would get boring after 10 minutes doing the same motion over and over and not getting enough pleasure out of it to climax.

[mynameisjane]

*he said lasted 45 minutes during sex. i have no idea how long he takes when masterbating.

[MoveAlong]

Well that's why you change it up! Masturbation can dull itself if you don't find new ways to rub, jack or just get the friction going ;-)

+ Usually the feeling of wanting to hurry the ejaculation is the leading cause for male premature ejaculation, which is the same thing as climaxing too early. This is a psycological thing and you have to train yourself to slow down and enjoy it.

For men (not sure for women), if they keep hurrying things up, it might lead to type 2 premature ejaculation*.

*Type 2 premature ejaculation isn't worse, it's basically condition that has developed, not one that has been there ever since puberty (type 1)

[TENNISROKR]

I don't think that it will be a problem, since most females have a longer sexual stamina, then males, and if the female climaxes before the male, then he can hurry up usually.

[Antares]

i really think it can go both ways but i mean i guessing its not a problem

[ThatCanadianGuy]

What about multiple orgasms? If you cum, then cum again while he does! :D

[Pioneer92]

if its your first time most guys cum really fast but you'll get used to it over time :D

[Ryan0244]

I dont think a girl can cum too early.... i mean, if the woman cums first then the guy can hurry up. (like TENNISROKR said)

[MoveAlong]

I don't think that it will be a problem, since most females have a longer sexual stamina, then males, and if the female climaxes before the male, then he can hurry up usually.

Well that doesn't sound very convenient :confused:

I forgot to answer the question tho - yeah, it could be bad because the guy may want you both to climax at the same time or around the same time. Hurrying up during sex or masturbation isn't a very good habit to get into.