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need-help
March 13th, 2012, 09:38 PM
I wanna break up with this girl I've gotten together with because I'm really not that interested anymore...how do I break it off without being a jerk?
Ace_of_Spades
March 13th, 2012, 10:34 PM
Just tell her that you think it is best if you see other people. Don't come up with an elaborate reason or anything, just keep it simple.
botwa
March 14th, 2012, 07:10 AM
just be honest and plain.
Mortal Coil
March 14th, 2012, 07:14 AM
Break up in private. Nothing's worse than being dumped in front of people. Tell her that you don't want to hurt her, and that you hope she can understand if you just don't think it's going to work out between you guys.
Clawhammer
March 14th, 2012, 09:19 AM
Talk to her in private, actually talk, DO NOT text her or call her, and tell her that things aren't working out and it'd be best to break it off. Just be sincere and apologetic and don't get into a fight or anything. If she still likes you, it's going to hurt her, inevitably, but do everything you can to make it easier.
Just something like, "I'm really sorry, you're a great person and all, but things have changed and I just don't feel the way I used to and I don't think it's fair to anyone to keep this relationship going under the conditions."
Keep it short, sincere, and good luck to you, lad.
Jdawg91
March 14th, 2012, 09:25 AM
Several options for this one.
Ease it off with her in private.
Be blunt in your opinion by breaking up with her quickly.
Explain the reasons and cut all connections.
Desuetude
March 14th, 2012, 11:37 AM
Like everyone else has said, just be honest and not harsh. Don't rub it in her face either. Say it to her, don't break up over text or skype cause thats just wussy and she deserves at least that. Do it in private as well as to not embarass her and let her come out with some pride in tact. Oh and cut the BS, just get to the point because games arn't necassary.
Im sorry, to me that sounded a bit harsh but it was just the truth and not intended to offend if it did.
Rage of the Menace
March 15th, 2012, 01:10 AM
I'm not like that, i just start being such a dick that she breaks up with me. Works more than often.
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