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~Dazed&&Confused~
June 18th, 2007, 03:50 PM
well iv moved house as some of you who actually cared might know -.-' and things have changed... before i moved i could have a laugh with ppl, be myself, have no problem talkin to girls and could stand up for myself.. so know iv moved and everythings different.. i never talk.. i feel like if i do then i dunnno its weird.. but ye most importantly talkni to girls.. i use to be able to talk to any girl i liked.. but know theres this girl at my school.. she's exactly like me (music and stuff like that) and i cant even talk to her O.o.. i mean she says hi and trys to talk to me all the time but i just sorta like smile.. its weird.. i dunno maybe its cuz im still settling into the school.. but iv been there for 7 weeks :/.. or i have no self confidence even though theres nothin to explain that..
please help guys.. seriously.. cheers :)
MoveAlong
June 18th, 2007, 03:58 PM
Well since you moved, you don't know a lot of people you can be comfortable with. It's natural - just stick it out like you did at your last school :D
mynameisjane
June 18th, 2007, 05:23 PM
just start talking. its not so hard once you get started with talking to people. just pick something to say and say it. dont think too much about what other people are thinking about you. and get to talking to her more too. if you think shes so much like you then it shouldnt be hard to find something you have in common to talk about. and eye contact is extremely important when you want someone to like you. and she must like you already if shes talking to you and you smile at eachother so what are you so worried about? nobody will ever know you if you dont talk.
Glasgow
June 18th, 2007, 09:00 PM
I was the same when i moved into my new school. i didnt talk to ANY girls until i was there for a year. And when i talked or said anything infront of the class I got all red and sweaty, but now i can flirt it up and talk whenever. You jus gotta get comfortable and its gonna take more than 7 weeks. just wait it out and maybe make an effort to socialize
~Dazed&&Confused~
June 19th, 2007, 11:44 AM
I was the same when i moved into my new school. i didnt talk to ANY girls until i was there for a year. And when i talked or said anything infront of the class I got all red and sweaty, but now i can flirt it up and talk whenever. You jus gotta get comfortable and its gonna take more than 7 weeks. just wait it out and maybe make an effort to socializebut usually i can settle in in like 3-4 days.. its just weird.. but ye thanks for all your advice guys :)
Gumleaf
June 22nd, 2007, 07:30 AM
you have been thrown out of an environment where you felt comfortable. after you have been in this new environment for a while and you get use to it you will probably become more comfortable and confident. the same thing happened to me when i started at my new high school last year.
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