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iAmJames
March 13th, 2012, 02:49 PM
Well , whenever I try to talk to girls that are good looking , especially one that I like , I act really stupid around them which makes them dislike me .

This is bad for my next problem is I can't get them to like me because of ^^^
and there's this one girl who didn't like me in the beginning but I can tell the acting is the only thing she doesn't like about me so I need to turn her opinion of me around .

Advice please ? :)

Desuetude
March 13th, 2012, 03:14 PM
Urm, don't act stupid?...

If you can't help it just tell yourself to calm down, take breaths, maybe go and talk to someone else for a bit and then come back so you are more relaxed. You just need to get better at controling your feelings i guess? Anyway just because they're pretty they arn't going to treat you any differently than any other girl would so don't worry about it.

ImCoolBeans
March 13th, 2012, 08:36 PM
The only advice there really is to give here is to stop acting like that. Just be yourself, there isn't a need to put on an act :P

sage of craze
March 13th, 2012, 08:38 PM
Here's how to stop acting like that: stop focusing so much on trying to get their attention. You may not realize it, but acting stupid is your way of getting them to focus on you. Just take it easy. Don't tweak out over how pretty they are/how much you'd like to date them, and you'll be able to show them the real you. :D

XxAssasiNxX
March 14th, 2012, 06:27 AM
When i talk wirh girls im usally with my freinds.... We do act... Well diffrent in a funny way. But if ur gonna ho stupid dont. That makes girls think youre a complete retard. Just act yourself and also be funny like me ant the same time...

Mortal Coil
March 14th, 2012, 06:30 AM
Take a chill pill. It's normal for guys to act stupid around hot girls, so try to consciously seem smarter than normal.
Hopefully it will even out :P