Fuck friends or something

[armadaskiing]

So I have a friend (girl) and we aren't exactley friends, i would rather say: friends with benefits. So we talk about sex stuff, mastrubating... So we came to a point when we thought : "Hey, why don't we fuck?" Is that good idea? Since we are both 13 and it would be our 1st time?
PS: We would use condoms :D

[CaliSublime]

If you are both ready for it then go for it, but just know that things could be real weird after if one of you doesn't like it or starts having feelings for the other person

[CuriousDestruction]

it's your choice honestly. If you are using condoms and you feel ready for it, who are we to stop you. Just be sure you are both completely comfortable with it and aware of the possible consequences.

[BigG]

If you both feel you are ok with it go for it have sex-BigG

[CoolGuyXD]

I would say wait to have sex. You are just going through a a natural thing. The first time is suposed to be special. I would say not to do it and wait till your older. If you are planning on doing it. Use condoms and be careful.

[abcdefghjklmnop]

Maybe wait a year or so. I was 14 when I lost my virginity, and it was really awkward and lasted about 10 minutes I'd say;) it was just really awkward and I've only spoken to her a few times since.

So I suppose what I'm trying to say is that it will really fuck up your relationship. But if you want to, I suppose go for it.

[armadaskiing]

But how bad can consequences be?

[Danielle's dreams]

Go for it boyfriend !!! Lol

[ExhibitG]

But how bad can consequences be?

wait nine months and find out.

[colz]

I wouldn't it doesn't sound morally right at all... but that's just me and the little thing that's my conscious kick'n in there,

[jason123]

It sounds fine to me. DONT forget the condoms.

[hedgemor]

I would wait if I were you, but do what you think is best.

[ima_dude]

Use spermicicdal lube LATEX condoms (they make spermicidal ones) and have her get on the pill if she can. Then go for it!

EDITED TO ADD: I see all the posts below that say don't do it, but I disagree... As long as you take precautions!! You must use new condoms that you buy yourself and you must use spermicide or spermicidal condoms. Also make sure to put it on following all directions.

Trust me I have done this before and if you take all the proper precautions from jer getting pregant you'll be fine. Also try to have her get on the pill.

[armadaskiing]

Okay thanks for the advices :D

[Snowfall]

If you guys think it's a good idea,go for it. Although you might want to take every precaution possible to avoid getting her pregnant.

[Erasmus]

if you think that you're both ready for it, then go for it, but just remember what could go wrong...

[armadaskiing]

Is condom inalf?

[BaNd]

try other things before sex because i don't think that at 13 you'll be ready to be a daddy if she does end up getting prego

[Clawhammer]

Dude, thirteen is early. Way to early. I know it sounds like a great idea, but you'll regret it later. Trust me on this one and wait. If you find someone you really, really care about later on, who am I to stop you, but for now, just trust me on this one, there's too much that could go wrong so easily and at your age it would be even worse. If she got pregnant, you'd be doomed, and condoms don't work %100 of the time. That or if someone found out... Just think about it and don't let your hormones get you into trouble. Stick to doing it yourself for now.

[PylinJ]

I'm 14 and I live in the UK, I'm sure in the US its a LOT different to here in Europe but I think its a little too early, I've had a couple of relationships this past year or so and 1 or two got quite far but we only ever talked about having sex in a jokey way :P

You will regret it dude, if you do do it of course protection and don't be a jerk and go round telling everyone about it because your life will then be screwed up for the next year or so.

It's peer pressure, deal with it.

[armadaskiing]

Damn, everytime i read this replys, I'm less sure of doing it... Okay guys thanks for advices I'll do it my way now :) Thanks !

[Wicked_Syn]

At your guy's ages? Are you serious? There is no "FWB" at that age. No way.

Go ahead do it, you will strongly regret it down the road giving your virginity up to some slutty situation like that. WOW.

[OregonStateDude]

I would say wait. 13 is kinda young for a straight couple to be going all the way. I guess it's different for two 13 year old guys, 'cuz neither one of them can get preggo.

[Rascaldog24]

wait nine months and find out.

Dude ain't that the truth ha 😂😭😜

[Nolf]

not quite sure what your asking. that whole friends with benefits things is great for you guys, but the whole 'is it a good idea' question is just gonna invite people to talk about their opinion for how long you should wait. that is totally personal, but i think 13 is to soon

[Terrell94]

Save it for later

[Will Grigg's on Fire]

You're too young. I'm 15 and sure I want to have sex, but I know I will probably regret it this early. I am waiting a while before I do it... Especially since it's illegal under 16!
13 is wayyyy to young that's all I'm gonna say... But if that's what you and your partner want to do and you feel ready, I cannot stop you from doing so

[ItsJustJack]

But how bad can consequences be?

pregnancy or STD mate............. but i would go for it however wear protection and be safe

all i can say you are very lucky and i would love to trade places with you :D

[jessiecox1]

I would say wait, but if you both feel ready and are willing to accept any consequences, do what you both feel is right.

[Green Arrow]

You're quite young if you ask me, however if both party's want to do it then go for it. WEAR A CONDOM! AND MAKE SURE SHE IS ON SOME SORT OF CONTRACEPTION (can't spell it) :S

[Xandle]

There's nothing wrong with doing stuff with her like making out, HJs maybe etc. but it's my personal opinion that people shouldn't have sex until the legal age. It's your choice though - whatever happens just make sure you won;t regret it later.

[Fruity Drink]

Absolutely not.... That's all I can say, is NO, NO, NO, NO!

[Black.Veil.Brides]

go for it.... but only if yhur bith sure yhur ready..... i lost my virginity when i was 13 and im 17 now.... the guy i had sex with... i a total sweetheart... we have been together sinse.... im hoping someday he will propose and we can have kids of our own.... fingeees crossed guys

[boosterboy1]

Go for it if your ready but be careful of the consequences