Well, I'm single again.

[Buranri]

Fuck this. Didn't even end for any particular reason, she just thought we'd be better off as friends.

[Bougainvillea]

We're all at that point in our lives where it's possible to move on.

Don't worry. There is always someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are, and who will stand by your side when no one else will.

[Iron Man]

C'est la vie. You have the rest of your live to find someone else. This love is just the first of many.

[Buranri]

Meh. It's just weird... Somehow, I'd sad mostly just because I don't have a girlfriend, not because I broke up with this particular girl.

[MJohn]

Idk but every time I get in a relationship, I think that. Well this will end anyway since its just practices for your destined one. Sooo. Its just practice. Don't worry about it.

[Mortal Coil]

You're available, so go out and find someone else. Like you said you're not even that sad about losing this particular girl, so it really doesn't sound like you're that attached to her (sorry if I'm making an incorrect assumption).

[Buranri]

You're available, so go out and find someone else. Like you said you're not even that sad about losing this particular girl, so it really doesn't sound like you're that attached to her (sorry if I'm making an incorrect assumption).

Yeahh, that's the part I suck at :p and I honestly don't know. I definitely liked her, but I only knew her for about 2 months, so it's not like someone I've been friends with for years.

[Breakeven]

welcome to the club ^_^

[Buranri]

I hate relationships. How are people so confusing?

Here's a more in depth explanation of what's been happening...

So last Monday, she was basically just in a bad mood. PMSing, didn't like anyone, me included. And that kind of continued all last week. Oh, and since this is a fairly important detail - she has ADD.

I thought she was just in a bad mood, so I didn't worry about it too much. I had some suspicions that she didn't like me anymore, but I asked her about it, and she said she was just having a bad week (SAT, tests) so I went with that.

Then as I said, yesterday we talked and she said she just wanted to stay friends. She liked me more as a friend than as a boyfriend. I was a little pissed, mostly because I'd asked her that question a few days earlier. Anyways, we broke up.

Now today... I don't even know. I got a text from her saying she wanted to talk about it at school, but since we often don't get a chance I got her to at least kind of describe what she wanted to talk about over text. From what I can tell, she basically just was having doubts for the last week... Gah, I don't even know what I'm typing. She's not really the type of person to lie easily, and... It might be easier to just copy her text.

"I guess I can give you the general idea. I don't not like you. IN fact, I do like you. I'm just iffy sometimes, especially now. I've been freaking out about a lot of things and being as indecisive as I am, the smallest doubt will make me doubt waaaay more. So I like you, but I don't think it's fair that I should take that out on you. Would it be fair in a month? No, it wouldn't. So I just want to figure out what exactly it is that I want. I will tell you for a fact that I found myself looking for you basically all day, though I wouldn't know how to talk to you, I kept wanting to show off at the concert, however I would do that, and I keep thinking about how much I kind of want to run up and hug you..."

I feel like the indecisiveness is largely due to her ADD. She has meds, but doesn't take them because of the side effects. Combine that with her bitch of a mother, who actively prevents us from ever hanging out, and I can see where the doubts come in. It's just... I don't know. I can deal with doubts, and I'm willing to put up with that now, but when it happens I don't know if I'll be as OK with it. We're planning to try to figure this out tomorrow in person, but I don't even know what I want to do...

[botwa]

well I guess it's better for everyone. she wasn't happy, be happy that you're not responsible for that anymore.

[plebble]

I was so close to my girlfriend, we were so in love and trusted each other. But randomly last week she said she hates me and dumped me, I don't even know what I did wrong :(

[StoppingTime]

She wasn't right for you. It's nothing against you, she just didn't feel comfortable.
Whether it was the right decision or not, I don't know, but it is probably better for both of you.
I don't really know how much her ADD had to do with it; maybe she was just overstressed and couldn't handle a relationship.

It's alright though, you'll find someone else, someone who will always be there for you.

[Jmihas]

Being single is the one of the best thing. Trust me.

[obsessivedisorder]

I've been single for, oh, I don't know, about 15 years? How are you doing? Good? Ah, me too, it's swell...

[iallen]

find someone else

[Buranri]

Easier said than done, unfortunately. I've lived here for 8 years and I used to be pretty weird (short, didn't really have any friends). That's kind of carried over, so now I only ever meet someone I'm interested in if they're new (freshmen or just moved here).