Is it bad to feel this way? (GF problems)

[kookoo_dude32]

So First off i'd like to say,I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way,but just to clarify Im NOT asking for techniques or Story-telling. Anyways Its like this.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months or so,And we have kinda gotten into some more sexual stuff,Not all the way or anything but yeah. Usually when things get intense i end up fingering her,And thats it. ONCE she gave me a hand job,but thats about it,She said now she feels awkward doing that,but at the time it was ok pretty much. Now I get kinda frustrated because she gets pleasure and i get nothing in return,she kinda noticed that and she said she feels bad for not giving me anything in return,But my question is,

Is it natural to feel frustrated when im pleasuring her and getting nothing back? Keep in mind its not like im trying to force her to do anything,I respect her decision,but at the same time its frustrating. Thats all,Thanks for any help :)

[Saxophone 44]

Yes, if she never does anything I would be a little ticked off. Do you know why she doesn't?

[MJohn]

Its hard to please someone else. Just by fingering them or giving a handjob. BUT. If you two are getting pleasure then it would be nice. Try 69.

[CaliSublime]

Yeah that would suck, I'm sure you are horny around her anyway and then fingering her must make u even crazier, would she care if you jacked off in front of her while she's fingering herself?

[CuriousDestruction]

You are both in a relationship and your sex life should be reciprocal. If she gets pleasure, you should get pleasure as well if you want it. You shouldn't force her of course but that's a part of a relationship you guys have to talk about and negotiate.

[CoolGuyXD]

I was in your same spot when I started dating my gf. I respected her and did not make her do anything she didn't feel comftable with. Just give it time for her to get used to it. As for you getting frustrated. Its just something you are going to have to control. I got angery too. Just go slow and things will work. Finally it sounds like you care about her a lot. So your relationship does not revolve around sexual things. Thats what really counts. Hope you too stay together for a while. Good luck!

[armadaskiing]

Ask her if she would like to fuck?

[Ashleigh]

i understand where youre coming from... in same boat kinda but other way round... he gets handjobs like all the time and i rerely get anything.... guess its just down to how shes feeling at the time.... xx

[kookoo_dude32]

She doesnt because she doesnt feel comfortable doing it. We;ve talked about it,but her thoughts just kinda never change (*And sorry if this thread is considered dead,Its been a while since i used this site so I forget if this topic is consdiered dead or not.*)