Boyfriend Trouble x.x

[Ace_of_Spades]

So, i've been with this guy for a little bit, and i've told him that i'm not having sex until i'm at least 18, and he said that's fine, but he's going to sleep with other people because of it, and he is -_- I like him, but i hate that he's doing that and it both pisses me off and makes me feel sh***y, but whenever i try to talk to him about it, he gets really mad and tells me that i'm expecting too much out of it and that he'll consider stopping when we're in a 'real relationship,' which according to him is when i start sleeping with him >.> So.. i don't know if i should break up with him or what, because i do like him, but this is just.. idk the word, but i hate it.

[Desuetude]

Break up with him. If he thinks a relationship is all about sex then he isn't worth being in one with. You shouldnt feel pressured into doing anything and if he really loved you he would respect that little thing that you ask. He wouldn't put you in the position you are in now it is so insensitive of him (and in no way trying to offend you here) but it sounds like he doesn't really care about you if he is willing to sleep with others. In the end it is your decision and that is just my opinion. Do what you think is right and what you believe would be the best option for you.

[Ducky]

Break up with him. If he thinks a relationship is all about sex then he isn't worth being in one with. You shouldnt feel pressured into doing anything and if he really loved you he would respect that little thing that you ask. He wouldn't put you in the position you are in now it is so insensitive of him (and in no way trying to offend you here) but it sounds like he doesn't really care about you if he is willing to sleep with others. In the end it is your decision and that is just my opinion. Do what you think is right and what you believe would be the best option for you.

Couldn't say it better myself.

[Ace_of_Spades]

Thanks, i do think you're right and i almost did break up with him earlier, but there's just a little part of me that keeps myself from going through with it >< I'm just gonna have to toughen up and do it i guess.

[Ducky]

There are plenty of fish in the sea. You need someone who will respect you and your morals. It might be hard and he might beg, but don't let him pressure you, you will find someone 10 x's better who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

[Desuetude]

Thanks, i do think you're right and i almost did break up with him earlier, but there's just a little part of me that keeps myself from going through with it >< I'm just gonna have to toughen up and do it i guess.

It will be natural to feel as though part of you still wants to be with him but yes just think about all the negatives of being with him because im sure they outweigh the positives. Just keep your head up and know that you are better off without him.

[Ace_of_Spades]

Lol, if he begs i'm so going to give in though >< I am just hopeless :D Oh well, i'm sure my friends will force me to go through with dumping him.

[Desuetude]

Lol, if he begs i'm so going to give in though >< I am just hopeless :D Oh well, i'm sure my friends will force me to go through with dumping him.

Awh don't give in he honestly isn't worth it. There are so many better people out there that will treat you how you deserve to be treated. Its good you have your friends behind you though, it's nice to know you don't have to do it alone.

[Ace_of_Spades]

Awh don't give in he honestly isn't worth it. There are so many better people out there that will treat you how you deserve to be treated. Its good you have your friends behind you though, it's nice to know you don't have to do it alone.

Hehe, my friends would punch me if i didn't, so i don't know if that's 'behind me' but it's effective nonetheless ^^

[canadaski]

Hehe, my friends would punch me if i didn't, so i don't know if that's 'behind me' but it's effective nonetheless ^^

The odds are if he's sleping around now, then he'll do the same when he's sleeping with you. He's just making excuses. You don't want to sleep with a slut. In addition, are you solely talking about anal sex or are you also talking about oral sex and mutual masturbation?

Just out of curiosity, why are you choosing to wait to 18? You don't have to answer that if it makes you uncomfortable. Either way, dump this guy and find someone who really cares about you.

[Ace_of_Spades]

I was talking about all forms of sex, and i'm not really sure why i'm waiting, but i don't think there is any harm in it.

[Jmac]

There are plenty of fish in the sea. You need someone who will respect you and your morals. It might be hard and he might beg, but don't let him pressure you, you will find someone 10 x's better who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

I completely agree with ducky

[Ducky]

I completely agree with ducky

I'm an easy person to agree with

[botwa]

just break up. it's the best thing you can do