How to talk to a guy

[JoshD]

So I'm gay, but in the closet, even though I'm pretty sure most of my friends think I'm gay...Anyways, theres this guy, a year younger than me, who I know is gay, but he's also in the closet. I saw him last night for the first time at a party and we talked for a bit. I'm really into him, and I think he feels the same but neither of us said anything or really hinted at it--You can just tell you know? I know that he wouldn't try anything because he's in the closet but I was just wondering, how should I go about talking to him? What should I say/do around him? I was actually still pondering whether or not to add him on Facebook...

He's so cute and awesome, I just really want to get to know him better, but I don't want to come off too strong or weird haha.

Any advice on how to go about doing this?

By the way, he only goes to my school part time, and a different school for the rest, so I rarely catch glimpses of him when I'm at school. And I usually pretend not to notice him but it's so hard.

[Stryker125]

Hmmm....I dunno. Maybe you could start a conversation with him the way you'd start one with anyone else I guess. A simple "hi" or something should do. Even adding him on facebook could work, since you might be less nervous to talk to him on there..good luck!

[prob1996]

You could ask him about something he's interested in or maybe just tell him a joke, or make a remark about something in school or something. Then just play off of his reaction.
You could invite him to hang out , get coffee or something, not like a date just hanging out somewhere, coffee shop, movies, or the mall.
I agree with above poster, add him to FB. It may be easier for u to talk to him that way to start.
good luck!

[Ace_of_Spades]

My suggestion would be next time you're talking to him, ask him to add you on facebook, or trade numbers and text him. I mean, sure it's being 'anti-social' n' stuff, but it's really easiest and will let you two talk without having to worry about anyone hearing you.

[JoshD]

I added him on facebook and everything, and managed to message him once and we exchanged a couple of sentences...Haha.

That's the first time we really talked, I never see him at school so can never talk to him. I don't want to come off as weird and creepy and super interested. I'm just praying that I'll see him at another party or something.