Why do my friends act like this?

[BoyTeen1997]

Okay, every time i try to talk to my close friends about puberty, jerking off and stuff like that, they act weird. Almost like they are thinking in their heads, "Damn dude, r u gay" Why do they act like this? I mean most people on here say they do alot of stuff with their close friends (Jerk off, HJ, BJ, etc.) and i can barely talk to my friends about tht type of stuff

[Spreadingwings]

maybe they are just shy on the topic

[Djentleman]

I think people just tend to find those things personal or they're afraid their sexuality is being questioned if someone of the same sex is asking about it. But every damn person does those things, so it's not like it's a secret no one knows.

[CuriousDestruction]

anything having to do with our bodies, particularly the reproductive parts tend to be very personal and almost taboo topics. They are also just afraid to talk about themselves for fear of being made fun of or out of insecurity. I can't talk about anything like masturbation or puberty unless i am on VT or with my closest friends.

[Anima]

Its a shame that society has made us like that nowadays . like really you cant even talk about jerking off. I try with my friend and hes just like , dude shut up. or no i dont wanna tlak about my masturbatory habits with you. like its so annoying.

[Dimitri]

Honestly, they are just immature about it, I mean I have never spoken to any of my really good friends about any of those topic, they are social taboos...

[senior.2013]

As said. They may be immature and they just arent comfortable with it.

[GirlLover15]

same thing

[samb12]

it might just be in ur head but it might also be they didnt know that u liked talking about that

[Skeptical Bear]

Some people are cautious when talking about puberty. Most people I know usually keep to themselves about it. They could also get the wrong idea. My friend knows I'm Bi and everytime we talk about anything towards puberty, he thinks I'm being a pervert or something. You probably need to get in a closer friendship with those friends so that they open up.

[bwl17]

My friends are like that too. That's why I got on here. Maybe just become closer friends then maybe they will talk about it more openly

[GabAngel06]

It's probably because they are too conservative regarding this matter.

[MJohn]

Immaturity or they don't wanna talk about it or they're not used to talking about it or in person. It's just weird. What if someone ask you if you grew pubic hair down there yet? Weird right. Even if your friends ask you that. It will still be weird