Having sex

[whippowil]

So there's a girl who wants to have sex with me, but she isn't good looking. She's a little chubby, but has nice breasts and a nice butt. Should I have sex with her? Sex is sex and it feels good, and she doesn't live near me anymore, so it wouldn't be awkward afterwords.

[Short Circuit]

Do you look at the mantle piece when poking the fire? JK

You do not say how old you both are. You should not have sex "just because you can"

[whippowil]

Do you look at the mantle piece when poking the fire? JK

You do not say how old you both are. You should not have sex "just because you can"

I'm old enough and so is she.

[Sephtyan]

This is a bit of a stupid question in my opinion. You just say "this girl", and the fact that you mention that you wouldn't need to deal with her afterwards makes me believe you have no real feelings for her. [A] this would cut down on the pleasure of the experience, and [B] I agree with Short Circuit; you shouldn't have sex just because it is available.
If, for whatever reason, your hand isn't managing to do the job, then go out into the world and see if you meet the one whom you can love. I promise that intercourse will be a fuck of a lot better with them.

[Skeptical Bear]

I agree with Sephtyan. If you come asking this kind of question, then don't bother even dating her. You have no feelings for her and it seems like you only want the sex. Meet someone that you might actually have a serious relationship with. No hard feelings buddy.

[senior.2013]

As said. Its not all about the sex. You should wait to meet someone you can do more with than have sex once.

[CuriousDestruction]

I'm gonna disagree with the people above me actually. If you both are mature and understand that the sex is casual and you aren't just using each other but rather just want to pleasure yourselves, why not? If you are being safe and you both understand what you're doing, it's not our business to criticize you for it. Each to their own. That said, if you just want to have sex with her to put another notch on your belt so to speak, or she wants something different than you do, that needs to be addressed beforehand.

[Jupiter]

If you guys are close enough and it won't ruin the friendship.

[digzchickz]

well as long as both of you are ok with it and are on the same page about the reasons that you would be doing it I really don't see nothing wrong with it.

[funinthesun]

first of all you should only have sex if it's something you're ready to commit to. what if you get this ugly girl pregnant? only if you like her and you 2 are old enough

[MJohn]

I say yea and always use protection !

Sex in the dark is good :)

[RadioPlayer]

Just wait for the right person. Trust me, it'll be better than just doing it cuz you can. Wait till you find someone that you really want to do it with, and for the right reasons.

[pickelweasel131]

if you guys are close in age go for it... otherwise wait til you know you've found the right person for you

[whippowil]

I'm gonna disagree with the people above me actually. If you both are mature and understand that the sex is casual and you aren't just using each other but rather just want to pleasure yourselves, why not? If you are being safe and you both understand what you're doing, it's not our business to criticize you for it. Each to their own. That said, if you just want to have sex with her to put another notch on your belt so to speak, or she wants something different than you do, that needs to be addressed beforehand.

I like your answer the best. We both discussed it, and we are both aware it is a casual thing. Her face isn't the greatest, and shes a tiny bit chubby (not like a ball or anything, just not some tight, super skinny chick, but I'd think more skin would feel better, and she has big breasts lol) Yeah, I'm not going to have sex with her just to say I've banged x amount of girls.

[Buranri]

In some ways it might help, so you're completely clueless and awkward during your first time with a girl you like.

And even aside from that... boobs.

[MassiveAttack]

It's sad that all you keep talking about is what she looks like. You don't just have sex with someone because you want to, or she has nice boobs. This is a nice way to represent our generation. Having sex because we can. Brilliant.

[plebble]

If you really like her, just do it. Looks don't matter

[Diverperry]

sex is something that is shared between two people who love each other. it isn't a hit and run car accident.

[JJSSHH]

I would make sure you both know its "just sex", so none of you get hurt.

[hollisterboi95]

Okay so i say, do whatever you want. though what you said about her looks is kind of harsh. use condoms and give lots of compliments, making her feel good will make it better for both of u. and i guess it doesn't matter that she lives far away. i mean if you have no feelings and are having sex. then that makes you friends with benefits. i've had a few. just don't lead her into falling for you or don't ever have sex and never talk again, it will break her heart.

[Cicero]

Weight or size doesn't really matter, but I understand why some people care. As long as she's ok with it and she's nice I don't see why not. Especially if she has a nice butt and boobs ;) but it's your decision. If you're still a virgin, is it worth losing your virginity over her? If yes then go ahead, if no, wait for the special girl to have sex with. Virginity is something you'll never get back, so make sure that you make your first time special. Don't make it like a "quickie" or don't think you have to hurry so you don't get caught. It's something your gonnna remember for the rest of your life :)

[itunes89]

NO. I think that only time you should have sex, is if you are really ready. You love "this" person and you also need proper protection..

[twotall]

well i think everyone has a good point yes you should wait for the right person bc it means something. but i dated a few girls and some are just looking for sex just like guys. so im going to say you can if you want to but be safe but if this girl really does like you and has feelings for you, then you shouldn't have sex with her (to just have sex with her) and not talk to her bc that's not fare to her.

[KarkatLuv]

you can do whatever you want, but if i was in your shoes i wouldn't, i'd want it to be the ultimate way of showing my passion for the one i love, not just humping someone on the bed, know what i mean?

[tinead]

just do it mate i wouldnt even think twice about it.