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clarinutty99
June 17th, 2007, 02:52 PM
I was talking to a friend on the bus the other day and we kind of got into a sex/ puberty conversation. After a while he and his girlfriend confessed to me that she had given him frequent hand-jobs. i was okay with it at the time, but in retrospect i'm not sure if its okay. He and i and his girlfriend are all in eighth grade. Its their perogotive but i just wanted to know some peoples opinions.
Aηdy
June 17th, 2007, 04:22 PM
Well it is pretty young but it does happen, they are too young for sex in my opinion but oral sex isn't as bad.
MoveAlong
June 17th, 2007, 06:37 PM
Well it is pretty young but it does happen, they are too young for sex in my opinion but oral sex isn't as bad.

exactly my words
stridegum91
June 17th, 2007, 06:39 PM
yea same with stuff around my school but kids have sex and i dont think its right but really nothing that i can handle..
Glasgow
June 17th, 2007, 06:51 PM
Theres always a few students who are sexually active at that age. Its sorta normal now adays. Handjobs arent even close to being as bad as sex or even oral sex.
stridegum91
June 17th, 2007, 06:53 PM
Theres always a few students who are sexually active at that age. Its sorta normal now adays. Handjobs arent even close to being as bad as sex or even oral sex.

very true because there are less ways to get STD/STI so its probably the "safest" sexually action.
Cap'nCrunch
June 17th, 2007, 09:06 PM
"Okay" is a subjective term. What you consider "not okay" may be fine for someone else. I heard about hand-jobs and oral sex when I was in 8th grade, and I was a little surprised, but I didn't think it was wrong that it was happening. I think it's not "okay" when an 8th grader gets pregnant.
clarinutty99
June 27th, 2007, 10:31 AM
thanx much... I just needed some opinions :)
Sapphire
June 27th, 2007, 10:51 AM
May I ask how old are 8th graders? (being from England I am allowed to be ignorant on this! lol)
clarinutty99
June 27th, 2007, 10:56 AM
13/14 yrs old
Sapphire
June 27th, 2007, 11:05 AM
Oh right, I can't see anything wrong with them doing that.
If it was full intercourse then that would be different.
Pioneer92
June 27th, 2007, 04:59 PM
im with the general opinion here that handjobs and maybe oral sex is ok but intercourse is kinda weird at that age
xTheLordsServantx
June 27th, 2007, 06:10 PM
i think its wrong but its their right to do what they please and we should not judge them based on their actions. If they want to go doing sexual acts, then we should let them because it is not our place to tell them they should not! But I just hope that they know that if they are going to have sex, they should do it in a safe matter.

God Bless
Gumleaf
June 28th, 2007, 01:46 AM
in a very horny moment, both my girlfriend and i gave each other oral a few months ago and we are both 13. but on reflection we have both agreed that it should not have happened and we will not be doing that sought of thing again until we are older.
Berodas
June 28th, 2007, 09:53 PM
I think it is alittle weird that they told u but u should just for get about it and move and if that doesnt work talk to them about your feelings.
heartagram72
July 9th, 2007, 09:04 PM
its actually good.
they are fulfilling there sexual urges.
just make sure they dont move on to any insertation, or oral.
i no u know about aids, wear babies come from, and most std's
oral tho, can cuase throat cancer....
Antares
July 9th, 2007, 11:29 PM
Im extremely curious to know what bus you were on???
And Ant is QFT