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green
March 11th, 2012, 06:58 AM
so theres this lovely girl in my home room called chloe, sweet girl, never done anything wrong that sort of thing. know im sort of the grunge rock sort of person, im not an honour student and im not a favourite of the teachers. I really want to ask her out but i dont know how. she and i are friends, but im not sure how well. I mean today was her birthday party and she invited a fair few people from home room but not me. She said it was cuz she had a limit of 30 people and i sort of believe her. now here is my question. is doing somthing like leaving notes in her locker kind of creepy, or sweet in your opinion. should i just go up to her and ask her?
ImCoolBeans
March 11th, 2012, 11:56 AM
Go for you, the worst that can happen is that she will say no. It won't go anywhere unless you take action. Good luck :)
Desuetude
March 11th, 2012, 12:05 PM
Leaving notes from a "secret admirer" or something could go really wrong. She could think it was someone else or she could think it was a joke or mean trick. In my opinion that idea is just setting yourself up for dissapointment.
Ask her, it's the only way that you are going to get a real answer and try not to stereotype her as the "sweet girl" because looks can be very deceiving. Just go for it because asking a load of strangers on the internet really isn't going to do anything apart from make you more nervous and question it more.
Electra Heart
March 11th, 2012, 12:59 PM
Um, well, I think the whole leaving notes in lockers sort of thing is a bit cliche, but that's just me. Hey, if you like the girl, and she likes you, take action. You'll be thankful you did it in the end :) Good luck, dude!
botwa
March 12th, 2012, 07:54 AM
I don't think leaving notes is a good idea but it depends on a person.
I would socialize with her more I think. and let her know this way that you're interested.
Creadman
March 14th, 2012, 12:56 AM
Dont do it in gym shorts!!! Once i was talking to my FRIEND in gym shorts and got a random boner! She looked down, and then looked immedietly back up blushed and ran off. Embarassing!!!
green
March 15th, 2012, 01:46 AM
she said that she was a bit sad about her last boyfriend. wasnt a yes nor a no exactly, fuck i hate that.
Desuetude
March 15th, 2012, 01:52 AM
she said that she was a bit sad about her last boyfriend. wasnt a yes nor a no exactly, fuck i hate that.
Just give her time, im sure she'll make up her mind soon and she will appreciate you giving her a bit of space to think. It's annoying but eh, what you going to do? Well done for asking her though.
XxAssasiNxX
March 15th, 2012, 05:31 AM
Trust me when i say this.(it happend to me today) never tell anywone who u like leads to distasters. If you and her are freinds there could be a chance. And you have to know if she likes u.... My freind asked my crush what she thought of me and well she said,: i barely even know him. And then this. My freind didint tell me everyrhing but she told me to literaly fuck of... I know it hurt alot when he said it.... But since ur freinds this wont happen as bad if she rejects you. I thinl you should go for it. Just dont make the mistake i did.....very very sad at the momment
Ussb823
March 17th, 2012, 05:59 PM
Ah dude, well leaving a note in someone's locker is not creepy.
And to prove it, and distract your mind from it let me tell you about a story of a guy(whos dating the girl I like) well he actually stalked a girl, whom he in now dating.
Everytime I saw him, "Oh my god I can't get her out my mind!"
He sent her really creepy emails(She sent them to me, because she know I am good with advice).
He WROTE, not sang, songs for her....
And now he's with the girl that I like.
So dude, you know what, you aren't being a stalker, it shows you have the guts to speak your mind, and many people, like myslef, admire that.
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