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AltoVaughn
March 10th, 2012, 02:32 AM
I just thought it would be interesting to see what people find particularly romantic/appealing. Hopefully a couple outside of clichés. Basically what are some small things someone could do for you that would mean the world to you.

Mine:

1. Bringing me hot tea with milk and sugar when I'm sick or having emotional trouble.

2. Making an effort to call me instead of texting me.

3. Would Cook with me;Cooking Together.

What're yours ?

ImCoolBeans
March 10th, 2012, 02:40 AM
- Taking the time to say good morning/good night
- Not over doing the "I love you's" and saying it at really appropriate times.
- Doing everyday things together, including each-other in routines; even as simple as getting ready together.

There certainly are many more, I just can't think of them off the top of my head at nearly 3 am :P

Quercus
March 11th, 2012, 12:27 AM
-Taking interest in my hobby and attempting to participate in them with me.
-Being affectionate even when they know im not in a good mood.
-Being playful with me, and wrestling.
-Takes me on a surprise nature hike.

Sordid Saint
March 11th, 2012, 01:16 AM
Actually listening to what I have to say and taking it into consideration

Knowing when I need a hug :)

Wanting to just chill and cuddle

Letting me know how they REALLY feel

Skeptical Bear
March 11th, 2012, 01:46 AM
-Take my feelings in to consideration.
-Accept me.
More but I don't remember.

botwa
March 11th, 2012, 06:07 AM
- accept my appearance
- avoid being annoyingly nice and caring
- accept my strange hobbies
- come up with nice ideas how to spend free time

Genghis Khan
March 11th, 2012, 06:36 AM
tongue kissing me after eating a bacon double cheeseburger

green
March 11th, 2012, 07:11 AM
making music with me (not an innuendo)
I love it when i can play guitar and sing with a girl. I've always wanted to serenade a girl but i always think id get arrested :/
Just going to get coffee together, doing simple things and not having to do the whole "i love you" thing ever 2 minutes.

also not making out in public places is a good one. all the people at my school in relationships just make out on the basketball court and its awkward. small kisses aren't a problem but I don't enjoy being super affectionate in front of people

confused65
March 11th, 2012, 09:17 AM
talking to eachother
visiting eachother
having fun together
being happy with eachother etc. :smile:

AltoVaughn
March 11th, 2012, 04:25 PM
making music with me (not an innuendo)
I love it when i can play guitar and sing with a girl. I've always wanted to serenade a girl but i always think id get arrested :/
Just going to get coffee together, doing simple things and not having to do the whole "i love you" thing ever 2 minutes.

also not making out in public places is a good one. all the people at my school in relationships just make out on the basketball court and its awkward. small kisses aren't a problem but I don't enjoy being super affectionate in front of people

I agree with all of this. Minus the Girl part of course, and that I play a different instrument.

Magenta
March 11th, 2012, 04:44 PM
Oh wow, strangely enough this is hard for me... but I have to say these are a couple:

- when someone just puts their hand on my back or their arm around my waist.
- offering to be there when I'm upset rather than just talking because I'm not very good at verbalizing how I'm feeling.
- taking me on random "adventures" whether it be to the beach or to get coffee. :P
- playing with my hair as long as I know it is them ('cause most of my friends have learned the hard way that I do not like people touching my head unexpectedly).

AutumnDae
March 13th, 2012, 03:31 PM
-Listening and being interested in something I'm talking about, even if he doesn't know a lot about it or understand it fully.
-Compliments that are specific. "I like the way the sun makes your hair look shiny" is much better than "You look nice."
-I'm still a sucker for door opening and walking on the outside when you're near the road.
-When sitting next to each other, I always get weak in the knees when a guy cups the back of my neck. Something so intimate about that to me.
-Not always needing a plan. Sometimes just going for a drive and rolling down the windows and opening the sun roof is more fun than going on a dinner and movie date.
-My ex-boyfriend used to randomly surprise me at work, I used to get so excited and I would have so much energy for the rest of my shift.
-GOING FOR RUNS TOGETHER. Or actually just working out. There's something very special about physical activity together. Hiking with a significant other is so much fun, especially when you get to the summit and you're both seeing an incredible view together.

Ambrosia
March 13th, 2012, 04:06 PM
My man is exceptionally romantic. :3

--Cleaning my apartment for my while I'm at work so that when I come home, everything is nice and sparkly! (I'm a mess)
--Buying a bigger bottle of Whiskey, instead of the smaller pints, with intentions of sharing it with me while we drive back roads!
--Texting me every chance he can to remind me of how madly in love he is with me.
--Taking my car while I'm at work and detailing it. :3

Sweetest man ever.