Tired of Living

[Short Circuit]

Why should I carry on with the constant bullying, name calling, friends who don't want to be friends anymore, failing at school, losing my grandmother, parents who don't understand me anymore. The list goes on and on.

[Joshh97]

I can't give you an answer cause I'm feeling the same. However I can give you advice that has helped me in the past. Think about it. Your still young. You have a bright future, trust me. My Grandma died 2005. Never remember that day, but its small things that happen day to day that will let you think "She'd be proud of me for what I'm doing now". Best of luck

[CuriousDestruction]

-hugs- There are a lot of people who care about you and would miss you if you were gone. But in truth, you give your own life meaning. You are what's most important. You are beautiful. And no bully, loss, or failure can ever take that from you, nor can it dampen that beauty. Stay strong love.

[BassSwagg]

Remember, you have nothing to die for. You may be upset and tired and just blaa but once you die thats it, no do overs, no taking it back (unless your religion believes otherwise). Now there is a saying "a forever solution to a right now problem" it annoys the hell out of me when people say it but it can be true, in a year (seems like forever to me) your life could be TOTALY different! so idk im just kind of rambling, but yeah think about it :)

[Borxar]

Awww Kyle *hugs* I know its hard, but you are still a very special guy even if people dont always understand you, its not your fault and just try to get along with your family however you can, cause they still love you! It sucks that bullies are picking on you and I cant understand why, but what they say has no merit and so stay strong and dont let them make you feel defeated. You will always find real support and people who care about you man :)

[Skorch]

Life has it's hard paths. Once you experience life without the trouble, it feels worth living. Don't give up. Who cares if they don't want to be your friend? Loss for them. Don't listen to bullies, they are just trying to put you down, just ignore it.

[Short Circuit]

Its been a whole week since my "accident" (failed suicide), and still no nearer to being happy :(

[Jupiter]

Kyle,

You know that things get better. It does take some times, in fact, it might be a few months before you get your life back on track. All you can do, though, is put all the stupid crap behind you and move on. It won't be easy, trust me. But one thing I know is that sometimes, you just have to surround yourself with the ones who love you.

[Frankie66]

things get better, i have some of the same issues, i keep looking/finding a bright side

[Short Circuit]

There just is no light at the end of the tunnel anymore, my girlfriend doesn't want to see me anymore, my friends are talking and laughing behind my back. I take one step forward, and three steps backwards. I just can't put up with it any more ;(

[DerBear]

Then what do you do? Give up?

End your life?

These would not help. You give up and do what? the only way you can truely give up is to end your life and I am sure you do not want to do that.

Your 14 Kyle! You have your entire life a head of you. Sitting upset about it ain't going to change anything. You never know what lies behind the corner.

Your girlfriend does not want to be with you anymore? Your 14 and have been going out for what under 1 year/6months (I forgot what you posted on VK about it) ITS not the end of the world, Again 14, young.

Your Friends talk behind your back: find new ones, confront them. Speak Openly.

Have issues with people you know, Again confront them talk to them. People can be more than reasonable.

Also a death, Hard to deal with-->that's true. Ask yourself would she of wanted you to live like this or end your life? I am sure the answer would have been, No!

[Short Circuit]

Death must be the greatest adventure in life, thats why they save it till the end

[Sonic Boom]

Death must be the greatest adventure in life, thats why they save it till the end

LOL. That's like saying going to bed will always be more exciting than what you did during the day just because it's the last thing on the agenda. It's still early in your "day" and so you shouldn't waste time thinking about going to "sleep" yet: there are so many exciting things to be done still!

I hope this message finds you well: Lets say you're making a clay jug or something. You mold it and so on and simply leave it to dry. You comeback the next day to collect the dull jug it and squeeze it a bit too hard. The dull jug crumbles into a million pieces........

Now the guy next to you has also made a clay jug. But instead of just letting it dry, he leaves it in a fire for a few hours. Then he places it in a really hot oven afterwards. Finally, he placed in an acid bath to clean it. It seems like a harsh treatment for a jug, but it was for the best because when it was handled roughly it remained solid. he even dropped it from a few feet and stayed intact. It also had a more interesting texture due to the acid treatment.

So although it seems like life is all unpleasant and therefore pointless, you are going to have a much stronger and more interesting character than those who have not been in the fire,the oven and the acid bath. Your chance to shine will come (The process won't be finished just yet you're only 14!) Good luck my friend <African handshake and hug>

[SolarSolexis]

You know, I might not be the best person to get advice from, because I can't solve any of the stupid problems I am facing. But I can guarantee you something. You are not alone. If you just tapped into the vast potential that EVERY person holds within them, then you WILL shine and overcome all of this. I know its hard to say, when I can't even do it myself... But trust me. I know how all of this is. I have found one thing that helps. If you can find just a single thing that brings you pleasure (Reading, gaming, schooling, video making, singing, poetry, writing, ANYTHING!) then do it! Immerse yourself in it. Maybe you will find another enthusiast and make a friend. I know you want someone to save you. I know you want to give up. But you have to save yourself, and you can't give up. And one day, I promise you, it will get better. Compared to the alternative, I'd say playing a waiting game is much better than death.

[kai99]

VT is here to help us. Count on we to help you but dont kill yourself :(

[DerBear]

VT is here to help us. Count on we to help you but dont kill yourself :(

Help should be unconditional

[Breakeven]

coz things will get better and u have ur whole life a head of u

[Short Circuit]

coz things will get better and u have ur whole life a head of u

They just got a whole lot worse :(

[DerBear]

It does get better eventually though

[Short Circuit]

Not from where I am sitting it doesn't

[DerBear]

Some things you do by yourself others you cannot control

Change Seats kyle.

[SolarSolexis]

I promise you, no matter what your situation, it can get better. And if it doesn't, you can keep on fighting. My grandma has been medically ill for 39 years. She has had cancer in her bladder, breasts, thyroid, etc. She has beat it every single time. She knows she isn't going to ever get better, but she still fights. Most people ask "Why?" and she says "Because I love my family, and I love my friends, and I love my animals. The earth is beautiful and life is precious." Just as she has fought her entire life, you must too. Sometimes we aren't born with an easy way out. Sometimes we have to make a way out for ourselves.

If you are lost in the woods and don't see a path, what do you do? Do you give up trying to find your way out? Or do you push through the shrubs and trees and such and find a way out? Life is the same way. You don't give up on it because it gets too hard... You find a way to make it through the pain.

I hope it doesn't sound like I am coming down on you, because it isn't what I am trying to do. I just want you to see that life is beautiful, even when it's not. I want you to see that life is worth living, even when it isn't.

To quote The GooGoo Dolls: "When the world is insane, you get used to the pain and you don't even know what you feel. And I am like you, all alone and confused, but you know, it's not forever."

[Short Circuit]

Thanks everyone for turning me around from the depths of hell. I know I am still going to have some bad days, but with all your kind words, I CAN pull through this.

[Carly011]

I know what you mean :/ i just feel like life isnt worth it anymore. Death would be better. But just keep pushing on, you can do it. I know its hard, but things do get better

[swimmerboy95]

Never give up man. You are only 14. Your life will get better, I promise. There is always a reason to live. Remember that.

[Carly011]

I know what you mean :/ today i just dont feel like living anymore. Whats the point? What the point of living when i hate myself and feel like crap all the time? I feel like a loser, fat, stupid ect. :(

Everyone says thing's get better. And they do. But i feel like i am going to struggle with the ups and downs the rest of my life, i hate it.

Try to stick it out though, talk to someone, make a list of all the good things, watch a really funny movie ect. anything to get you out of your funk. I personally read a book or watch greys anatomy :)