Little Advice Needed ;)

[Toon'Cam]

I think I relised that I might have been Gay when I was about 14 years old but I have never really came out because of non-supportive parents and a lot of homophobic friends. Last year I was told that another guy in my college might like me but then everyone thought I was straight so I didn't really want to do anything but I moved to a new college this year and the same guy also has moved to the same college as me. I have been thinking about possibly trying to go back and see if he still likes me since I'm in a new place now.At first I would want to just casually be asking him if he wants to meet sometime just to see how its going since we have known each other for around 6 years before moving onto seeing if anything can happen between us. I know this doesn't sound too hard but I'm a very shy person and even if anything happened between us I'm still not too sure that I would want to come out as I have a gay sibling and my parents were not happy about that. Also I don't even know if I actually 100% like this person or whether I'm just settling out of loneliness and a chance to possibly see someone. What would be the best way about doing this? Any advice is appreciated :)

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

well to find out if you really like n would be to maybe go out on a date and see how it goes. maybe after going out on a date and getting to know him you will and that you do like him and want to continue the relationship or the other way around and not want to. As for your parents, you can always not tell them if he does actually becomes your boyfriend. or you could just tell them, yeah they may not like that your gay but i bet they would accept you for who you are

[Toon'Cam]

Thanks for taking your time to reply :)

Now I need to know how to approach a guy who thinks I'm straight and he thinks that I don't know he is gay as he told it to a close friend with confidence, and also if I do end up seeing him could me being scared of coming out affect us as dating someone who wants to keep you a secret cant feel too nice :(

[AltoVaughn]

I recommend meeting up without an intention of being anything other than friends at first. Get a good measure for his feelings/attitude towards you. Maybe tell him you think you're gay without mentioning that you're attracted to him. That would give him a good reason to bring up his feelings if they at all exist. Since your shy you could explain that you'd like to hang out sometimes because you don't know many people at your new school yet.

Good Luck

[Black.Veil.Brides]

just tell them there is no reason to hold back who yhu really r yhu r yhu and yhu r and yhur beautiful

[WonderTastic]

Just Go for it. You dont live for your parents you live for you.. Still respect then and love them but you got to, live for you.... Coming out is not that bad plus you are grown and nobody can tell you anything

[Averysbabygirl]

Go for it