Talking to my GF about sex

[Speedy29]

Well me and my gf have been going out for 2 months , relax ik what your thinking 2 months? thats it?! no , we broke up before but got back together so in total weve been together for 9 months not including break up but if i did it would be more than a year. Im older than her im 17 and shes 16 , and i dont want to talk to her about it and he get the wrong ideas that sex is all i want because that is not the case at all? When should i even bring the topic up? should i wait until like 4 months or something?

[kenoloor]

If you're not comfortable enough to talk to her about sex, what makes you think you're comfortable enough to have it with her?

[Electra Heart]

Um, well honestly, at your age you should be mature enough to talk about these topics like respectable adults... just try to casually bring it up. Have some faith in your relationship.

[DerBear]

Clearly the maturity level and confidence in this relationship must be lacking.
OR
like sapphire said.

[ImCoolBeans]

If you're not comfortable enough to talk to her about sex, what makes you think you're comfortable enough to have it with her?

Clearly the maturity level and confidence in this relationship must be lacking.
OR
like sapphire said.

Exactly what these two posts said. If you aren't comfortable even talking about sex then you should probably hold off on it. They might not be the right one if you aren't confident or comfortable discussing such things.

[Chicka15]

Can't add anymore, everyone has covered it.