ugh schools out

[CryingEye666]

ugh schools and out and i didnt ask this girl out. i tried to have my friend give her my number because i couldnt attend class and had to do something outside. im sorry it happened and it sucks because i was really going to ask her out. and now my summer vacation starts and im not feeling good. i hate my life and i want to die. i wonder what its like to be dead.... forever...
any tips on how i can get through life? i promised people if i didnt ask her out on my birthday or before then (may 10th) i woulda killed myself. i didnt. so i said if i dont do it before this year ends im gona kill myself. i think im going to now

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Do not kill yourself over a relationship, period. I know sometimes these things make you want to, but remember, no matter how slim the chance of it working now, the chance of it working when you are dead is zero.

[Mannequin]

Good God. Call her or something. If something this little makes you want to kill yourself, then you probably have a psychological problem--so get meds.

Sorry, I'm harsh..but at least I'm honest.

[MoveAlong]

I agree with Austin. You should seriously get over one girl. It was a crush and that's nothing to kill yourself over - it's being dramatic.

You're gonna go through a lot of mistakes in life and not ask out a lot of girls, or realize that they already have boyfriends. Just brush it off and keep looking.

[CryingEye666]

ok first of all, MoveAlong -- she doesnt have a boyfriend i know that for a fuckin fact

Do not kill yourself over a relationship, period. I know sometimes these things make you want to, but remember, no matter how slim the chance of it working now, the chance of it working when you are dead is zero.

secondly, it wasnt a relationship! i was trying to get into a relationship, i wasnt IN one already

[MoveAlong]

ok first of all, MoveAlong -- she doesnt have a boyfriend i know that for a fuckin fact

It was an example...No need to get mean :(

[Antares]

do you really think that asking a girl out that most likely gonna be there next year is worth your life. the answer is NO dont do this to yourself.

[CryingEye666]

sorry about that MoveAlong! =[



do you really think that asking a girl out that most likely gonna be there next year is worth your life. the answer is NO dont do this to yourself.

and: thats exactly the point, SHE is worth a lot to me, and means a lot to me. but the point of her not being there or being there doesnt matter. i wouldnt do this for any girl. i really like this girl a lot. id only do it for her. and i know shes gona be here next year anyway.

by the way, anyone can answer this part: but since i been agonizing this so long and now that schools over, do you think it would be cool for me to call her up and ask her out to hang?

[MoveAlong]

...do you think it would be cool for me to call her up and ask her out to hang?

yeah, go for it

[Antares]

HELL YES!! do it. do you have her #.

[CryingEye666]

yea i do have her number,
i have her home phone number for her dad...
i hate having to deal with a girls dad especially if they are separated from the mom
Ugh

[Antares]

well if you think that he will freak out or something then just call and say "Hi my name is ... and im with the welcome committie for whatever school and whatever grade and i was just wondering if i could speak to a whatever the name is" and then he shouldnt freak out. but you HAVE TO SOUND HAPPY. ive done it a billion times so it should work. try it!

[CryingEye666]

now when she (the girl) gets on the phone, do i go on talkin like im still with that 'committie' ? or do i just tell who i really am

[hunterofthewest]

Look at it this way. If you kill yourself, how can you ask her out?

[Antares]

no cut the gag when you get on the phone with her

[hunterofthewest]

That's another reason to live. This dmdum told you to commit suicide! Anyway, just act yourself on the phone.

[what the?]

Good God. Call her or something. If something this little makes you want to kill yourself, then you probably have a psychological problem--so get meds.

Sorry, I'm harsh..but at least I'm honest.

I agree with Austin. You should seriously get over one girl. It was a crush and that's nothing to kill yourself over - it's being dramatic.

You're gonna go through a lot of mistakes in life and not ask out a lot of girls, or realize that they already have boyfriends. Just brush it off and keep looking.

Agreed :yes:

[CryingEye666]

its not little!! (not being mean!)
and maybe Freshwill is right...
i dont know...
whatever :(

[MoveAlong]

its not little!! (not being mean!)
and maybe Freshwill is right...
i dont know...
whatever :(

NO he's not. That is an unmoderated post and has been complained about to the senior staff of this forum because 2 of our moderators and our global moderators aren't doing their job. He was banned because he spammed the forums so you shouldn't take his advice.
Don't listen to people who don't have enough credit man - If I take the advice of a drug addict about life, how does that help me?
It doesn't. You gotta be the one to take charge of your life. Grab it and pull. Don't give up. Just don't.

[CryingEye666]

heh nice analogy
and yea your right

[ArtistInNeed]

sweetie, i really hope you find that courage in you to call her and ask her out. Youre a great guy, and im sure she'll see that. Youre sooo nice and funny, any girl would be crazy to pass up a date with you. ;) and thats the truth hun.
<3 Jamie

[CryingEye666]

aww
thanks :D

[Antares]

Im starting to tear up a little...i need a Kleenex...*sniff*...lol
well it looks like you found a TON of options so whats gonna happen. Are you gonna make your move???

[CryingEye666]

probably i might

[Antares]

i think that should have been "i will"

[CryingEye666]

well
yeah
i will

[heartagram72]

same thing happened to me...i just think of my favorite memories and everything i would miss if i killed myself, when i get suicidal thoughts

[CryingEye666]

same
but then i look around... and say: what could i possibly be missing?
the stupid teachers?
the cops who ruined my life?
the faggy kids i hate at my school?
what would/could i possibly miss?
and besides, when im dead, it wont matter, i wont have a mind to think what im missing
i dont believe that my soul will go to "heaven" or "hell"
im agnostic
so once im dead, i wont care what im 'missing' if im 'missing' anything at all

[Maverick]

You only live once so might as well make the best of your one and only life before it's finally over.

[MoveAlong]

so once im dead, i wont care what im 'missing' if im 'missing' anything at all

You may or may not. The point is, why would you want to go? If your life sucks, try to make it right. If you're derpessed, find help from family, friends, and if you can't overcome depression alone, see a doctor.

Are you against abortions? I have one thing for those people: if you are against abortions and you're feeling suicidal, isn't that a contradiction? You're killing someone who could be somebody, that could change the world and that could help people for the better.
Think about that :rolleyes:

[CryingEye666]

i'm not against having abortions
does that change anything in your statement ?

[MoveAlong]

Not the first half of the post
I must of looked like an ass for the last half tho :whoops:

[CryingEye666]

what can i do to make my life right?

and i get the abortion part, i pretended i was against it and i understand it now.
but yea, any ideas to make me feel better? anything to do?

dude... im 17, and i dont even know how to swim, thats sad
my friend wanted to go swimming with me and another friend today, i told him i couldnt swim
that leaves me out of so many fun things
ugh

[MoveAlong]

heh, so what if you can't swim? You can still take a dip in the water. I'm a horrible swimmer, but I can still hang with my friends by the pool and try my best. The thing is, if you don't know how to do something, try it. And if people laugh at you because you can't swim, oh well. Just laugh it it yourself! Accept that you can't do something and go and hang out anyways.

but yea, any ideas to make me feel better? anything to do?

Like I said, go for things. Go to a therapist, or talk with people on this site so you can let out your feelings - don't bottle them in. Get a song that motivates you. Find something you love and go for it or learn how to do it or learn more about it. What makes you happy? Do that!

I think you should talk to someone 1 on 1

[Antares]

same
but then i look around... and say: what could i possibly be missing?
the stupid teachers?
the cops who ruined my life?
the faggy kids i hate at my school?
what would/could i possibly miss?
and besides, when im dead, it wont matter, i wont have a mind to think what im missing
i dont believe that my soul will go to "heaven" or "hell"
im agnostic
so once im dead, i wont care what im 'missing' if im 'missing' anything at all
but why dont you care about whats missing you?

[CryingEye666]

well what is missing me?
or what/who would miss me
and why

teachers that i hate even tell me that the best/ or only way to live happily is with friendship and/or love

im not really loved anywhere...and im hated throughout my whole school
i have only like 3 friends out of 2000 people in my school
AND those 3 friends live so far away and i cant always hang out with them cause they live so fuckin far away
i cant even make friends with a stuffed animal ! (an expression sayin i suck at making friends)