girls???

[pmm98]

so for some reason when i hang out wit girl they always say i wish you were gay or i wish you were a girl or they think im gay because i am really friendly and mature sometimes so i might give them guy advice or be really nice and easy to talk to and i tihnk they associate me with gay people? i always be like im not gay and im not going to be or whatever but what do i do to make them stop saying that it gets annoying? especially when they say it in front of other guys and they get the wrong idea!!! do i start being an asshole to them or?

[LaxFB3]

Don't start acting like an asshole!!! Thats the last thing you want to do because you'll just lose them as friends. If you want to solve anything, talk it out (like an actual sit down conversation; not "Stop that") with them. Make you're feelings known, and make sure they get the message

[Skeptical Bear]

Don't be an asshole. It's that when girls hang out with gay guys, they have this relationship with them where the guy is nice and he helpful and the girl can talk to them about anything. I'm like that too with this one girl I have as a friend but she doesn't think I'm gay. Just tell them to chill out on calling you gay, simply because you're nice and helpful. Being mean to them won't really get you anywhere in long term.

[senior.2013]

Yeah, if you turn into an asshole or douche, they wont like you at all. Tell them your not, in a real conversation. I have a friend who always says "You dont get anywhere in life without being an asshole sometimes." As its true, it doesnt apply to this situation.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

This isn't puberty; you'll get better replies in teen sexuality.

P101 for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Binatang]

omg that happens to me too!!! it's really annoying

[GirlLover15]

same prob

[CoolGuyXD]

Just ask them nicely and if that does not work stop talking to them for a little bit and see if they will say sorry and then you guys can move on and be friends.

[Recreated]

Back in America that always happens to me. I can always help girls and they can talk to me and stuff, like my best friends are always girls. But they only ask if im gay like 2 times b4 they stop

[GirlLover15]

same thing happenes to me

[AHSboy]

I was in that exact same situation. Just let them get to know you and in time, they'll see that you're not gay. Just be yourself. Hit on a few girls in front of them every now and then.

[The Flash]

im not gay, but im usually their "Gay Best Friend" So they get to tell me stuff, and in return they call me their GBF

[Pipo]

The reason why girls like to hang out with gay guys is because girls can know the guy is gay without they ever tell the girls. Some girls are smart like that and some guys can't just figure it out. There are simple ways to find out is a guy gay or not and some girls know it and I'm not gonna list them.

Why girls hang out with gay guys is because they know they aren't sexually attracted to girls so they know they won't try to do anything like touching sexual way etc what straight guys would do (maybe) Also they know the guy won't want to be her boyfriend so that's one worry to less so they can speak to them freely and know they're going to be friends no matter what.

You can also be straight and be good friends with girls I'm not saying that straight guys can't be first with girls yes they can everyone can if they just want to. I think they're saying that stuff to you cuz they might think you want to be with one of them as boyfriend?

I don't know but hope this clears something

[VirtualGuy012]

Most of the guys at my school used to think I was gay, just because I spent ,ost of my time hanging out with the girls. Now I have one of the prettiest girlfriends in school. So don't worry about it man. Just let the guys talk however they want to about you. And just tell the girls that you're not gay.

[josh_9]

i hate that too